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well so it would seem vanity and testosterone are alive and kicking. personally i prefer intelligence and if they look good fine and if not oh well its my business end of fairy tale.
Before I got married, I dated all kinds of women. Some were considered quite pretty, but they were boring people to be around. I also dated BBW's. I was interested in the person, not the cover. I wanted someone I could live with the rest of my life. Beauty fades fast.
My wife never even had a date in HS, but in my eyes she is and was very pretty. I couldn't believe such an attractive lady didn't attract more men. Too bad for them. They really passed up one great woman. Lesson. There is not "right" to a certain level of beauty. If beauty is the basis for anyones choosing of a mate/friend/ or SO, they have immediately classified themselves as very shallow, and no doubt will end up very unhappy.
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LMFAO @ hypocrisy!
Why? Because I don't find a certain look attractive? That's silly. Here's an important life lesson, Disagreeing with someone doesn't mean you're putting them down. And how am I bitter? I'm not the one having relationship problems. My man and I both feel the same about chasing someone younger with whom you probably have nothing in common except maybe you're willing to part with your money for a relationship and they're willing to be on your payroll.
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Oh it happens, believe me. I've seen hot guys with girls who look like they belonged in a kennel. Same goes for pretty girls with ugly guys.
Not always but there's often some sort of financial stability involved. I know a few men who married what many considered women to beneath them because of their looks. But the women were either financially independent or belonged to rich families. We know it happens with women, but it doesn't seem to be taken as seriously with men for some reason.
In my case I dont have to date a supermodel..but I dont want someone uneasy on the eyes either. I like to think that what I find attractive is not that hard to find.I see it all the time. Its just everyone is taken!
Let me elaborate. While at work I was thinking (instead of working). How many people believe that unattractive or ugly people have no right or are hypoctites for only wanting very attractive people? Is that a clear question? This is most noticeable when one unattractive person asks out another unattractive person just to get shot down for not being attractive. Or when an attractive person brings on the whole "back off, your out of your league". Do many people believe in "leagues"? Or do you believe in the whole Hitch movie theory. That anyone can sweep anyone off their feet if they have the right broom.
I think people would think negatively that way about an ugly person wanting a attractive person. I notice it all the time. Its mean. that actually happened to me back in high school. I do believe a guy would be out of my league and I will not pursue him. AT ALL.
Everyone is entitled to their own taste, BUT I believe people have a right to MUTUAL attractions. Some attractive people such as myself(not trying to be arrogant just honest) are only interested in other attractive people. If someone isn't interested in you don't keep pushing up on them. Have some respect and leave them alone. Personally I find it quite annoying when someone keeps trying to get my attention after I've done everything but skywrite that I have no interest in them. It's all about respect.
Do many people believe in "leagues"? Or do you believe in the whole Hitch movie theory. That anyone can sweep anyone off their feet if they have the right broom.
It depends. But too much credence is given to leagues, with negative results. Women have been shocked to find out that the very guy they were preening for, or trying to get the attention of, considered them "out of their league". A lot of people are going around single and miserable because they don't even try to talk to the person they're interested in. The fact that there are a lot of short or very plain guys with gorgeous women, and visa-versa shows that there's a lot more to the mating game than assessments involving "leagues".
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). How many people believe that unattractive or ugly people have no right or are hypoctites for only wanting very attractive people? Is that a clear question? This is most noticeable when one unattractive person asks out another unattractive person just to get shot down for not being attractive. Or when an attractive person brings on the whole "back off, your out of your league". Do many people believe in "leagues"? Or do you believe in the whole Hitch movie theory. That anyone can sweep anyone off their feet if they have the right broom.
