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This is beyond irrational. Maybe he shouldn't walk out in the street because he might get hit by a car or fallen on by a similarly depressed 41-year-old virgin who has decided to end it all. Two birds with one stone and all.....Maybe he shouldn't breathe because he might catch a cold.
Do something adventurous for once in your pitiful life.
Your chances are FAR FAR greater playing with 33 circulating STD's shared among 68,000,000 + adult Americans who are aware they have an STD (not including those that arent aware yet) ., versus crossing a busy street . Its pitiful using another for a mere copulation like Forest Animals , when you should be having more integrity and dignity toward a fellow Human Being ---- being brainwashed by an out of control Culture is no excuse for not wanting to live your life correctly and safely.
Your chances are FAR FAR greater playing with 33 circulating STD's shared among 68,000,000 + adult Americans who are aware they have an STD (not including those that arent aware yet) ., versus crossing a busy street . Its pitiful using another for a mere copulation like Forest Animals , when you should be having more integrity and dignity toward a fellow Human Being ---- being brainwashed by an out of control Culture is no excuse for not wanting to live your life correctly and safely.
If your talking about prostitution then your talking about something that has been around since the dawn of mankind, and theres nothing anybodies religion can do about it. If that represents an "out of control Culture" we have always been out of control for the last 10,000 years.
I for one don't believe the OPs story, but if it is true seeing an escort might fit the bill.
If your talking about prostitution then your talking about something that has been around since the dawn of mankind, and theres nothing anybodies religion can do about it. If that represents an "out of control Culture" we have always been out of control for the last 10,000 years.
No, im talking about our out of control and dangerous Sexual Hedonist nation that promotes using each other for a mere copulation aka: casual sex. And because its been around for thousands of years doesnt make it now correct to do ; murder has been around for at least as long so does murdering today automatically become an acceptable action ? And yes, humanity has indeed been out of control for a very long time culminating in severe moral degradation resulting in many thousands having lost their lives thru fatal STD acquisition all in the name of 'fun' -- the duping of America for the person who finds it enthralling to willfuly suppress their moral conscience for a sexual urge to be satisfied .
Your chances are FAR FAR greater playing with 33 circulating STD's shared among 68,000,000 + adult Americans who are aware they have an STD (not including those that arent aware yet) ., versus crossing a busy street . Its pitiful using another for a mere copulation like Forest Animals , when you should be having more integrity and dignity toward a fellow Human Being ---- being brainwashed by an out of control Culture is no excuse for not wanting to live your life correctly and safely.
Don't date much?
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Originally Posted by 007.5
No, im talking about our out of control and dangerous Sexual Hedonist nation that promotes using each other for a mere copulation aka: casual sex. And because its been around for thousands of years doesnt make it now correct to do ; murder has been around for at least as long so does murdering today automatically become an acceptable action ? And yes, humanity has indeed been out of control for a very long time culminating in severe moral degradation resulting in many thousands having lost their lives thru fatal STD acquisition all in the name of 'fun' -- the duping of America for the person who finds it enthralling to willfuly suppress their moral conscience for a sexual urge to be satisfied .
If you don't like the fun of casual dating, maybe that "severe moral degradation" is getting in your way.
I'm old, relatively "easy" and enjoy sex.
Your "degraded morals" mean nothing to me.
Your chances are FAR FAR greater playing with 33 circulating STD's shared among 68,000,000 + adult Americans who are aware they have an STD (not including those that arent aware yet) ., versus crossing a busy street . Its pitiful using another for a mere copulation like Forest Animals , when you should be having more integrity and dignity toward a fellow Human Being ---- being brainwashed by an out of control Culture is no excuse for not wanting to live your life correctly and safely.
If I had the slightest idea of what you were trying to convey, I would respond. But I don't.
If you don't like the fun of casual dating, maybe that "severe moral degradation" is getting in your way.
I'm old, relatively "easy" and enjoy sex.
Your "degraded morals" mean nothing to me.
1. One can date to get to kinow a person better without having to take from another their deepest source of dignity and intimacy , and run the distinct very real risk of permanent STD's which justify sexual immorality as being absolutely wrong.
2 . One day and soon, degraded morals will mean something to you .
If I had the slightest idea of what you were trying to convey, I would respond. But I don't.
Very siimply... sexual hedonism in america is proven to be very dangerous and fatal . ANd, the 'safe sex' mantra isnt working and has led to many thousands loosing their lives (HIV-AIDS/HPV) according to the U.S. Govt CDC website ; one must ask : Is it really worth freely partaking in sexual immorality which one knows is wrong for the sake of using another for a mere copulation (?) . Will that enable you to formulate a cogent response ?
Very siimply... sexual hedonism in america is proven to be very dangerous and fatal . ANd, the 'safe sex' mantra isnt working and has led to many thousands loosing their lives (HIV-AIDS/HPV) according to the U.S. Govt CDC website ; one must ask : Is it really worth freely partaking in sexual immorality which one knows is wrong for the sake of using another for a mere copulation (?) . Will that enable you to formulate a cogent response ?
I see no problem with sexual modesty/moderation if that is what a person feels is best for them, but I also see no problem with healthy sexuality. I will tell you that I think a confused, conflicted, scared-of-his-own-shadow man who is a virgin at 41 years of age is a man with serious problems. Whether you think I have problems with morals is irrelevant; I am far from a hedonist of any kind. In fact, I wish I had been MORE of a hedonist as a young man.
Last edited by JustJulia; 05-12-2011 at 05:27 AM..
Reason: Watch the words, please.
No, im talking about our out of control and dangerous Sexual Hedonist nation that promotes using each other for a mere copulation aka: casual sex. And because its been around for thousands of years doesnt make it now correct to do ; murder has been around for at least as long so does murdering today automatically become an acceptable action ? And yes, humanity has indeed been out of control for a very long time culminating in severe moral degradation resulting in many thousands having lost their lives thru fatal STD acquisition all in the name of 'fun' -- the duping of America for the person who finds it enthralling to willfuly suppress their moral conscience for a sexual urge to be satisfied .
Good thing you don't set the morality for all of us. Kissing has existed since the dawn of mankind, maybe we should outlaw that too!
Wondering if the OP will post back anymore. If he does, I hope he sees this:
OP, please call her back and go out again. Just go with the flow with her. Let her lead if it is easier. You have nothing to be embarassed about! Everyone is a virgin at some point. Most Americans do not have close to perfect bodies. They can still have gratifying sex.
You are making sex into too big of a thing. Yes, it is very intimate, and sensual, but you are turning it into something so special it is untouchable.
I think you owe it to yourself to call this woman and go out. Let things flow naturally. She cares a LOT for you, and knowing you are a virgin I bet she would love the opportunity to take the lead with you, and have a wonderful and meaningful night with you!
Give her a chance! Give yourself a chance!
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