Why does it always or usually a guy's social skills, conversation skills, attitude, mentality, way of thinking (like, realize)
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Probably a disgruntled teen or a socially inept guy in his 20s or 30s living in his parents' basement like a troll under a bridge.
Sometimes people don't fully grasp how hard it is for certain men.
I am on the more unsuccessful side to be sure, but I have had some women in my life.
I know at least two guys who are in their 30s who are nice guys and have never been in relationships. Too complacent and just have had bad luck too probably.
Now ... I imagine you are a young woman who has never had any problems getting a man. Imagine how bitter you would be if you were a 35 year old woman who could never attract a man.
You do your best to keep your head up in the real world and then come to these internet forums to vent.
Sometimes people don't fully grasp how hard it is for certain men.
I am on the more unsuccessful side to be sure, but I have had some women in my life.
I know at least two guys who are in their 30s who are nice guys and have never been in relationships. Too complacent and just have had bad luck too probably.
Now ... I imagine you are a young woman who has never had any problems getting a man. Imagine how bitter you would be if you were a 35 year old woman who could never attract a man.
You do your best to keep your head up in the real world and then come to these internet forums to vent.
This is the real world...
You MAKE your own destiny! You fix what isn't working. You find out what does work and you use it to your advantage. You examine your standards and figure out if there's something wrong with them. You don't WHINE! Whining gets you no where and whining makes real women sick to their stomachs.
Sometimes people don't fully grasp how hard it is for certain men.
I am on the more unsuccessful side to be sure, but I have had some women in my life.
I know at least two guys who are in their 30s who are nice guys and have never been in relationships. Too complacent and just have had bad luck too probably.
Now ... I imagine you are a young woman who has never had any problems getting a man. Imagine how bitter you would be if you were a 35 year old woman who could never attract a man.
You do your best to keep your head up in the real world and then come to these internet forums to vent.
This is the real world...
In other words, "I have the right to ***** and moan and complain that women don't want me in an internet forum, instead of wondering what could be wrong with me but will blame the opposite sex and just deal with the fact that I suck in real life."
In other words, "I have the right to ***** and moan and complain that women don't want me in an internet forum, instead of wondering what could be wrong with me but will blame the opposite sex and just deal with the fact that I suck in real life."
Don't waste your life with a loser mentality.
Wasn't this just covered in another thread?....something to do with being able to tell boys from men? Men don't blame others for their failures, boys do.
Wasn't this just covered in another thread?....something to do with being able to tell boys from men? Men don't blame others for their failures, boys do.
Yea. But I will say it again: "unfortunately, there are more boys than men in this Relationship Forum."
You MAKE your own destiny! You fix what isn't working. You find out what does work and you use it to your advantage. You examine your standards and figure out if there's something wrong with them. You don't WHINE! Whining gets you no where and whining makes real women sick to their stomachs.
I'm not whining.
I just feel compassion for the guy that is.
If you don't, so be it.
Be a part of the ruthless world that kicks the dog with one leg.
Be a part of the ruthless world that kicks the dog with one leg.
I refuse to be.
I'm not saying that I don't have a little compassion for the guy, but you don't get anywhere in life by feeling sorry for yourself, expecting everyone else to change to suit you, and never doing anything to change the outcome of your situation.
It's called "tough love". You don't just pat someone on the back and say, "I'm so sorry....you're right. It's just not fair." When you CARE about people, sometimes you have to let them know that THEY could be the problem here. To lay down and simply say that one gender has it easier than another....ALWAYS, is just that, it's laying down and showing how weak you really are. It's showing that you're not man enough to be able to handle a woman. BTW...women who do that, are also showing that they're not woman enough to handle a man!
Sometimes, you don't find someone because the right one hasn't come along. What a freakin' waste of time....spending your life with 30 wrong ones, just so you can say you had them.
I'm not saying that I don't have a little compassion for the guy, but you don't get anywhere in life by feeling sorry for yourself, expecting everyone else to change to suit you, and never doing anything to change the outcome of your situation.
It's called "tough love". You don't just pat someone on the back and say, "I'm so sorry....you're right. It's just not fair." When you CARE about people, sometimes you have to let them know that THEY could be the problem here. To lay down and simply say that one gender has it easier than another....ALWAYS, is just that, it's laying down and showing how weak you really are. It's showing that you're not man enough to be able to handle a woman. BTW...women who do that, are also showing that they're not woman enough to handle a man!
Sometimes, you don't find someone because the right one hasn't come along. What a freakin' waste of time....spending your life with 30 wrong ones, just so you can say you had them.
I'm not saying that I don't have a little compassion for the guy, but you don't get anywhere in life by feeling sorry for yourself, expecting everyone else to change to suit you, and never doing anything to change the outcome of your situation.
It's called "tough love". You don't just pat someone on the back and say, "I'm so sorry....you're right. It's just not fair." When you CARE about people, sometimes you have to let them know that THEY could be the problem here. To lay down and simply say that one gender has it easier than another....ALWAYS, is just that, it's laying down and showing how weak you really are. It's showing that you're not man enough to be able to handle a woman. BTW...women who do that, are also showing that they're not woman enough to handle a man!
Sometimes, you don't find someone because the right one hasn't come along. What a freakin' waste of time....spending your life with 30 wrong ones, just so you can say you had them.
YUP....and uh..YUP.
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Men don't blame others for their failures, boys do. 
