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Is this new behavior once you got married, or was he like this 6 months ago.
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My husband of 5 months acts as though he’s crazy about me at home...for 4 years we were together before marriage...I gave him every opportunity to date other women and he wouldn’t think of it. But he always did “scoping†and checking out women in my presence. We had lots of trouble over it. I don’t understand it..to the degree that it occurred. Now, I’ve caught him going out of a store that we’re in at dark and looking all around and in a bit coming back in. He left me in the grocery store for an hour, another day that we were out. We’re in our late 60’s. He said that his deceased wife never accused him of such things, nor his girlfriend through college. He and others say that when he married me, that he married “upâ€. I have never had any problems dating just about anyone I ever wanted to date. I need help with understanding what the heck is going on with him. I know it’s not me...I know that it’s him. I just don’t know what “it†is. Please guys, try to help me understand this. When asked why he went outside, b/c I stood close by and watched him do it, unbeknownst to him, he says that he didn’t go outside...then the story changed to “I don’t remember going outsideâ€....knowing all the while that I SAW it all.
HUH, What did you see? Did he run after women when they left the store to talk to them? Stare at them?
Left you in the store for an hour??? To do what?
Are you sure this isn't mental, like alzheimers or such??
Well the ones I see doing it are the subject of ID channel where they were caught following their victims. After they robbed, assaulted and killed them so yeah it's beyond creepy it's tragic.
Men and Women both do this. Especially Women. I am very muscular and handsome and I can tell immediately when I walk into a room all of the women straighten out their backs, start messing with their hair, checking makeup and what gets me is they all do it at the same time. I make them drop objects all the time also. And yes, on plenty of occasions they get in their cars and pretend they are going in the same direction I am. I also drive a nice car as well; this really kills em. I usually lose them or make driving maneuvers that suggest I am on to them. There is nothing creepy about any of it. We are creatures guided by attraction. As long as the other person doesn't break any laws or go too much of a distance to get what they want then it is completely healthy. Have fun scoping.
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