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I don't know. To me she's kinda messed up right now.
She's probably really not looking for a short term FWB situation like you are, she's most likely making something up to try to convince you that a LTR is good for you.
I'm not going to tell you what to do because it's not my place, but she will probably become really attached to you if you sleep with her. If you want to deal with her situation that's your call.
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Geez, not that I'm his advocate, God forbid, but it's not like he's the first or the last...
No but she's told him right up front what she wants, a LTR. He knows he doesn't want that. He just wants to have sex but he lied to her to hopefully get sex. How much lower can he crawl?
Okay, I won't use her for sex. Do I at least meet with her, or not?
Meet her, see where it goes. Don't lie to her or make up any stories, if you have to do that just stay away. If you can be honest with her about everything, then I see no problems meeting once.
Lauren, I need to be honest with you, like you were with me. I think youre hilarious, witty, smart, you keep me on my toes, make me smile, and make me fuzzy inside. But, I'm not looking for a long term relationship. I would love to meet you, date, (and have amazing sex) and see where things go, but if you are really looking for a relationship, I'm not for you. If you are looking for a boyfriend, then I am. If you still want to meet, I'd love to. Let me know either way.
No but she's told him right up front what she wants, a LTR. He knows he doesn't want that. He just wants to have sex but he lied to her to hopefully get sex. How much lower can he crawl?
I would say no. She said she is a swinger for starters, which mean that she could have been with other men in the bed too, so a higher risk of an STD. And no a condom won't always prevent getting them either.
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