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Old 03-11-2012, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Run. This man is a full-on psycho.
Not only is he creepy controlling right off the bat, he does not have the common sense or social skills to know how screwed up saying this was.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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That's a red flag for me. It i one thing to say, this outfit looks great on you or I love when you wear dresses. It is a whole other ballgame when you cross into "You shouldn't wear that because you are my woman."

There are of course exceptions: i.e. going to a specific place where the commonly accepted dress code and look is XYZ, and the outfit doesn't fit in with that.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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Why don't you tell him how to dress and see how he'd like it. Any man that would dare tell me how to dress would get kicked to the curb in a NY minute. Adios!
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:14 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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He seems like the possessive type.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:21 AM
 
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How did he meet you dressing OP? Were you in a mini skirt or did you just start doing it?

My answer depends on how you answer the questions.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:24 AM
 
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Run away now, he's trying to assert ownership. What's next? You're a grownup and have sense so you know how to address for occasions.

The only thing might be "I really like you in _____________" or "That___________ is really nice on you".

But then again I'm nearly 58 and may be descending into old-fashionedness.
No, NorthBeach, you're not. You're absolutely right.

There's nothing worse than having a walking on "egg shells" relationship. NOTHING.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:25 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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When I met him I was wearing a beige dress. It was low cut and came to my mid thigh.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:27 AM
 
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The rule of thumb is showing one or the other. Showing both at the same time (if you do that) gives trashy vibes. Of course, if he doesn't want to be with such a woman, he should just walk away instead of trying to modify her.
My thing is if he met her dressing this way, then he already knew the deal with her.

If he didn't and she just started going out with him like this, then I'll give him a pass.
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:28 AM
 
Location: DFW
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When I met him I was wearing a beige dress. It was low cut and came to my mid thigh.
So why do you think he wants you to dress differently ? Think he's a control freak or just a concerned friend ?
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:30 AM
 
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When I met him I was wearing a beige dress. It was low cut and came to my mid thigh.
Hmmmm, very pretty. Sexy without sleezy.

How many times have you gone out together? Did you wear the miniskirt on the second date or just this last one?

I'm sorry for the constant questions, but I really do have a REASON.
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