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Old 06-20-2012, 06:33 PM
 
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What this has to do with being used for sex because "Hey! its 2012", escapes me.
This is why I say, "It's 2012! About time men understood what women womens' concerns/needs!" But I guess it's just not going to happen.

 
Old 06-20-2012, 06:34 PM
 
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Oh please. Some women choose these sorts. The vast majority do not.

What this has to do with being used for sex because "Hey! its 2012", escapes me.
Because women are trying to make the case that they have to be careful who they chose to sleep with.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 06:35 PM
 
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Mostly if the women is unattractive or unhygienic.
Read the rest of the post.

And if the woman were unattractive, the guy wouldn't be in a relationship with her in the first place, would he?
 
Old 06-20-2012, 06:38 PM
 
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And if the woman were unattractive, the guy wouldn't be in a relationship with her in the first place, would he?
Of course he would. What happens is that over time many women let their looks go or they gain weight but many guys still can't leave because it would cost to too much if they got a divorce, or they have kids so they stay to keep the family intact.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 06:39 PM
 
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Because women are trying to make the case that they have to be careful who they chose to sleep with.

yes, that would be the preferred method....as opposed to what "just sleeping with anyone and not being careful" because it's 2012?
 
Old 06-20-2012, 06:39 PM
 
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This is why I say, "It's 2012! About time men understood what women womens' concerns/needs!" But I guess it's just not going to happen.
yeah, but the good ones do
 
Old 06-20-2012, 06:41 PM
 
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Oh please. Some women choose these sorts. The vast majority do not.
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Old 06-20-2012, 06:41 PM
 
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Because women are trying to make the case that they have to be careful who they chose to sleep with.
haha. Yes, we sure do.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 06:53 PM
 
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Yes, that's what I've seen. If it includes intimacy, women want a commitment.

If in the shopping phase, or you say "dating scene," then the party that is more interested wants the commitment, be it the man or the woman.

Personally, I knew of NO couples in their 20s who married after, or slightly after, college where the guy wanted to get married MORE. It was either equal, or the woman was more interested in the institution, particularly if she didn't have career aspirations and he did.

Back to an (unfortunate) adage: in a dating, budding or existing relationship, the person who loves LESS controls...and that probably includes the amount of intimacy in the relationship.



Now that is an intersesting statement. Made me think about every serious relationship I was in.
It really isn't possible to measure though, unless it is just obvious that one person is more in love then the other.
 
Old 06-20-2012, 07:03 PM
 
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I agree 100%, but it drops off significantly when a woman passes from her 40's into her 50's to the point where many women up in that age range don't have sex anymore altogether.
Yes, very true. Only a fortunate minority are having a good time is old age.
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Don't even try it! You're the one throwing jabs not me.
I think that's a matter of perspective. My posts are on par with yours.

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