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Having sex with random people usually doesnt result in great sex. One of the reasons I havent had a one night stand since I was 20. It takes a while to get to know what works for your partner and it almost always results in heights that a one night stand could never achieve
I disagree with this. People who are good at sex are good at it. For us men, a new partner is simply more stimulating.
You know, sometimes things taken out of context, seem really out of whack, but when looked aat as part of an ongoing conversation, they make a whole lot more sense. I will rewrite my original statement and claim that mans goal in life is to get laid. It isnt the only goal, its just a primary goal. You further your careers, in order to get laid, you make as much money as you can, in order to get laid, you buy sports cars in order to get laid, you come up with inventions in order to get laid, you spend billions of dollars every year in order to be better at getting laid, you buy designer clothes in order to get laid, at times you are nice to people in order to get laid, at times you act like a jerk in order to get laid, you learn one liners in order to get laid, you come up with made up stories in order to get laid. Yet, most guys dont have the balls to admit it. As if male sex drive and sexuality in general, was something to be ashamed of. It isnt. you should be able to openly speak about it, and be proud of it.
You know, sometimes things taken out of context, seem really out of whack, but when looked aat as part of an ongoing conversation, they make a whole lot more sense. I will rewrite my original statement and claim that mans goal in life is to get laid. It isnt the only goal, its just a primary goal. You further your careers, in order to get laid, you make as much money as you can, in order to get laid, you buy sports cars in order to get laid, you come up with inventions in order to get laid, you spend billions of dollars every year in order to be better at getting laid, you buy designer clothes in order to get laid, at times you are nice to people in order to get laid, at times you act like a jerk in order to get laid, you learn one liners in order to get laid, you come up with made up stories in order to get laid. Yet, most guys dont have the balls to admit it. As if male sex drive and sexuality in general, was something to be ashamed of. It isnt. you should be able to openly speak about it, and be proud of it.
Its like what Chris Rock's boss told him in that movie, I think I love my wife. "You can lose money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money.
But if Knight was suddenly handed an amazing body and a way with women would he hold the same view(sounds like a cheesy 80's movie)?
Even in the hypothetical scenario above, nothing would change, for me personally -- as I believe that the primary purpose of intercourse is for procreation, and ideally in the context of a loving, permanent committed relationship with a beloved wife. I have no interest or need to have physical intimacy with anyone, outside of a stable, lasting marital relationship. If and when in the future I have the blessing of a marriage and a loving wife, I will view that loving bond as sacred, eternal, and unbreakable, with the only reasons for a potential ending of that relationship being adultery or abuse (and even then in the cases of the latter, I would still try very, very hard to save the marriage).
I freely acknowledge and understand that others' views may differ on the subject, and that is perfectly fine as well -- I would never seek to impose my own beliefs on others ("Judge not; lest ye be judged"). To each his or her own I realize that what works for me in my case may not work for others, and I certainly do not presume to see my way as "the only way". I can only know what works best personally for me, based on my own individual emotional permanent, and to that extent, can only be true to that for myself.
Its like what Chris Rock's boss told him in that movie, I think I love my wife. "You can lose money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money."
You know, sometimes things taken out of context, seem really out of whack, but when looked aat as part of an ongoing conversation, they make a whole lot more sense. I will rewrite my original statement and claim that mans goal in life is to get laid. It isnt the only goal, its just a primary goal. You further your careers, in order to get laid, you make as much money as you can, in order to get laid, you buy sports cars in order to get laid, you come up with inventions in order to get laid, you spend billions of dollars every year in order to be better at getting laid, you buy designer clothes in order to get laid, at times you are nice to people in order to get laid, at times you act like a jerk in order to get laid, you learn one liners in order to get laid, you come up with made up stories in order to get laid. Yet, most guys dont have the balls to admit it. As if male sex drive and sexuality in general, was something to be ashamed of. It isnt. you should be able to openly speak about it, and be proud of it.
Honestly - this may be how YOU feel but I highly doubt that this is how ALL or even MOST men feel. Many men actually want things like love and family - not just sex. How do I know? Because I know lots of guys that could get laid all the time - but put more value on quality than quantity. I know lots of guys who want to get married and start a family - not just want to get as many women as they can. This may be your M.O. - but I don't think you can really speak for all men any more than any of us can speak for anyone other than ourselves.
You know, sometimes things taken out of context, seem really out of whack, but when looked aat as part of an ongoing conversation, they make a whole lot more sense. I will rewrite my original statement and claim that mans goal in life is to get laid. It isnt the only goal, its just a primary goal. You further your careers, in order to get laid, you make as much money as you can, in order to get laid, you buy sports cars in order to get laid, you come up with inventions in order to get laid, you spend billions of dollars every year in order to be better at getting laid, you buy designer clothes in order to get laid, at times you are nice to people in order to get laid, at times you act like a jerk in order to get laid, you learn one liners in order to get laid, you come up with made up stories in order to get laid. Yet, most guys dont have the balls to admit it. As if male sex drive and sexuality in general, was something to be ashamed of. It isnt. you should be able to openly speak about it, and be proud of it.
A lot of this is the truth though. When you peel back what most men's goals or things they do or want in life it almost always comes back in some way to getting women or sex
A lot of this is the truth though. When you peel back what most men's goals or things they do or want in life it almost always comes back in some way to getting women or sex
But there is a big difference between women and sex. There is a difference between looking for a woman and just looking for sex.
In my opinion, women must like what they are currently getting if they are unwilling to be more honest, as a form of moral and respect toward fellow human beings, and simply fornicate us into relationships whenever they find us in between girlfriends. In my case, they are always welcome to claim it is something nice girl friends should always be good for since only bad girls are willing to let us miss our turn.
But there is a big difference between women and sex. There is a difference between looking for a woman and just looking for sex.
There is absolutely no difference at all, but so many simply dont get that. Men want to get married, so they dont have to chase women every other night in order to get laid. Im not speaking for all men, im speaking only for myself and sharing my opinion on what it is tha tmen want. You have to be able to look beyind whats acceptable and nice to say. Its like arguing with someone who believes in tooth fairies, santa claus, and that men approach women not becaseu they're sexualy attracted to them, but becasue they want to get to know their personality. Im sorry but all of that is simply fantasy.
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I realize that what works for me in my case may not work for others, and I certainly do not presume to see my way as "the only way". I can only know what works best personally for me, based on my own individual emotional permanent, and to that extent, can only be true to that for myself.
