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If I was gay (which I'm not), why would I be interested in women?
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Originally Posted by JetJockey
So...he's gay because he wants to find a woman he can spend the rest of his life with, happily?
I mean, I'm super cynical and extremely distrustful of men in general but seeing a post like that gives me just a little sliver of hope that I'll be able to find a man who isn't a complete waste of space.
Thank you! Not all men view women as something you just f***. Marriage to me is serious and not just child's play.
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Originally Posted by Lariat
You can get over that now.
Any man who publicly, and loudly, say such things like that is covering up something.
The only time men are like that is when they have a woman attached to them.
Not true at all. I don't see what's wrong with what I said. I was just answering the OP questions and stating that sex isn't my ultimate goal. IMO, there is more to marriage than sex or just seeking carnal pleasures.
Any man who publicly, and loudly, say such things like that is covering up something.
The only time men are like that is when they have a woman attached to them.
Not necessarily..I have met men (though they are VERY few and far between) who honestly wanted to meet a woman, start a family and be with her for the rest of his life. My sisters best friend is like that, and unfortunately he's so focused on being a Dad and getting married that he moved in with his girlfriend of 2 months recently. She's an ex heroin-addict and has 2 children under the age of 4 and he's only 23
I've worked with nearly all men my entire life, I know how bad they can be. That's where my distrust comes from.
Not just a no but a HELL NO! As a guy, my ultimate goal isn't to get in a woman's pants (and that's not even my first thought when I meet a woman). My ultimate goal is to find a life partner that complements me or is an opposite of me that helps me improve myself and shares in my joys, sorrows, failures, and successes with unwavering loyalty. I would do the same for my future wife to be.
THats all very nice and makes every female poster happy....but in general, your primary goal of being with a woman is to have sex with her. its what drives you to meet her, and what drives you to become a better person and a better man. Its the most basic and primal instinct that assures survival of our species. Some see it and some dont, dome understand and some wont. Lets assume that you have average sex drive and average success with the opposite sex.
Find this wonderful woman to share your life with and all the other poetic bs you listed and take sex out fo the equation. Then get back to us about unwavering loyalty, when she is screwing your neighbor. To all the posters in this thread, that misundertood, I am not saying that women are only good for sex and that men dont look for other qualities or dont appreciate them. What Im saying is that beyoind all that, one primary goal remains and it cannot be denied. Sex drives men to be with women. Nothing else comes close.
Not necessarily..I have met men (though they are VERY few and far between) who honestly wanted to meet a woman, start a family and be with her for the rest of his life. My sisters best friend is like that, and unfortunately he's so focused on being a Dad and getting married that he moved in with his girlfriend of 2 months recently. She's an ex heroin-addict and has 2 children under the age of 4 and he's only 23
I've worked with nearly all men my entire life, I know how bad they can be. That's where my distrust comes from.
I hope you don't think all men are bad like that but, I can see why women think that way. Sadly, I feel that the reason I may continue to struggle finding a woman is because I may be viewed as too old-school, too much of a nice guy, and not "rough" enough.
Studies and reports have been done where its basically concluded that women would much rather have a "bad boy" as a boyfriend/spouse or whatever than a "nice guy". Maybe that's why Rhianna can't get enough of Chris Brown?
If I was gay (which I'm not), why would I be interested in women?
Why are gay celebrites married in Hollyweird?
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Originally Posted by RedRage
Thank you! Not all men view women as something you just f***. Marriage to me is serious and not just child's play.
Anyone who looks what's going on today could tell, indeed, marriage has been reduced to child's play. You have as much of a chance to get divorced as much as getting married.
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Originally Posted by RedRage
Not true at all. I don't see what's wrong with what I said. I was just answering the OP questions and stating that sex isn't my ultimate goal. IMO, there is more to marriage than sex or just seeking carnal pleasures.
The hell you gonna do on your wedding night then - play scrabble?
Not necessarily..I have met men (though they are VERY few and far between) who honestly wanted to meet a woman, start a family and be with her for the rest of his life. My sisters best friend is like that, and unfortunately he's so focused on being a Dad and getting married that he moved in with his girlfriend of 2 months recently. She's an ex heroin-addict and has 2 children under the age of 4 and he's only 23
I've worked with nearly all men my entire life, I know how bad they can be. That's where my distrust comes from.
Yes, I also know a couple guys like that...they're all bible thumpers. I can only say religion had something with that. And they've told me they want to get married as soon as possible. They all did. I can't tell you if they are happy or not.
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