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Old 09-28-2012, 08:26 AM
 
Location: The "Rock"
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I have had women I slept with in the past ask me for money to help with bills and stuff...

is that prostitution?
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Old 09-28-2012, 08:42 AM
 
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I have had women I slept with in the past ask me for money to help with bills and stuff...

is that prostitution?
Technically it is called "transactional sex" and you see it a lot between young girls and older men in developing countries.
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:44 AM
 
Location: The "Rock"
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Technically it is called "transactional sex" and you see it a lot between young girls and older men in developing countries.
I was being facetious...
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Old 09-28-2012, 10:03 AM
 
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Never used one and I can't imagine ever doing so, even if MrsCPG were hit by a bus and left me alone in this world.

However, I think I understand the fascination the subject has for most men: Easy sex on demand when you want. Considering the gyrations most men go through with the dating process, it's like taking a short cut.

I think Clark Gable said it best. Someone asked him why he used a prostitute when so many women would have more than willingly bedded him: "I don't pay them for sex. I pay them to leave."
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Old 09-28-2012, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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Just had a visit from a nice young lady I see from time to time.


I am

Relaxed.

No painful morning wood (a horrible affliction that strikes me constantly).

I slept all the way thru the night, which almost never happens.

Not getting irritated at work as fast.

Feel happy.

If I could afford to do this once a week I would probably live forever.

32 hours at week at almost minimum wage means once every few months unfortunately.
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Old 09-28-2012, 12:36 PM
 
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What I cant get over is this naive notion that just because you decide not to see a prostitute, that you arent paying for sex/companionship. The vast majority of courtships (not even relationships - just courtships) involve men wooing women with gifts, dinners, and spa treatments. Many women in mainstream society are going to be just as slutty as prostitutes - and most men will never even know about it. And some of these men dont even get a relationship in return, much less sex. Yet this is rationalized as somehow more "noble" or something...lol..ok, I guess. And the courtship part is not even something to fuss or whine about, its just the way the game goes. But it just doesnt make sense, to me, for men to act like they made out like a bandit, or like they've taken some sort of high road, when in reality, they are paying for it too.
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This whole "roster" concept floors me.

To be totally honest, I think it's because I'm a woman and have never needed to build a "roster". Women don't have to work very hard (read: at all) to get laid. If that's their goal.
Exactly! And you are probably the only woman who has admitted that it is not hard, for women, to get sex compared to men.
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Old 09-28-2012, 12:55 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Exactly! And you are probably the only woman who has admitted that it is not hard, for women, to get sex compared to men.
Haven't you heard what they say you have to do in order to excite your man?

"Show up."
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Old 09-29-2012, 09:17 PM
 
Location: living in OKLA. heart in Alaska
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prostitutes serve a useful purpose men are lonely or need to fulfill a fantasy and they are there for them.todays sex workers
are not like the ones from a few decades ago. these gals are completely aware of the service they provide. you can get GFE/PSE girlfriend experience or porn star experience when ever the mood strikes you. I have 2 female friends that are quite good looking and involved in the trade the money they make is ridiculous.I would never judge anyone for for finding sexual satisfaction with a voluntary participant be it free or paid. people are are way to up tight about sex we could prolly all benefit from a more open sex life there is should be no shame in it it's just sex..
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Old 09-29-2012, 09:47 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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i am a lifestyle *****-monger. spend over 50% of my income directly on working girls or on travelling to countries with large scenes. there are quite a few others on here, but they prefer keeping a low profile - i recognize quite a few guys on here from international PUA or mongering sites.
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Old 09-29-2012, 10:10 PM
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Haven't you heard what they say you have to do in order to excite your man?

"Show up."
That isn't true at all. It is hard for women to get laid.
I have to go to bars if I want to get laid,so women do have to work for it too.

Nobody touched on it,but in my area,omg,so many "straight men" have sex with other men
That's a big thing with prostitutes too,men who solicit other men.
I suspect they do it because they don't want anyone to know,including their wives.
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