When did so many men become so hostile about being expected to pay for dates??? (girl, older)

[Raptor76]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Not male but I think it's the disappointment after so many dates and not working out.

Then they should stop dating. That way they won't be disappointed and they can keep some money in their pockets

[iceskating25]

Originally Posted by Raptor76

Then they should stop dating. That way they won't be disappointed and they can keep some money in their pockets

or women can pay for their own way and not dwell at 40 something how they cant find a man

[Raptor76]

Originally Posted by iceskating25

or women can pay for their own way and not dwell at 40 something how they cant find a man

yeah that's what those 40 something year olds are doing wrong...start paying for dates and they will have a man in no time

[udolipixie]

Originally Posted by iceskating25

or women can pay for their own way and not dwell at 40 something how they cant find a man

Bit curious as to how would that help with guy's disappointment as the comment was about how the hostility comes from his lack of dating success. Unless this was a throwaway 'women pay your own' bit.

[Alicant310]

Simple answer:

All you women who feel entitled to be paid for, find a sucker who puts up with you and see how long that flows for.

All the men who have a sense of self respect find a woman who isnt looking for a guy to replace dad.

[mayita]

I personally don't like to go out with people who pinch pennies. Just not my thing. I make enough money to go out and eat and have a good time. If you are ******ing about a dinner or drink, in a not the gal for you.

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by Alicant310

Simple answer:

All you women who feel entitled to be paid for, find a sucker who puts up with you and see how long that flows for.

All the men who have a sense of self respect find a woman who isnt looking for a guy to replace dad.

It's their own fault. Most of the men will let a woman use them for money if she's attractive enough.

[Alicant310]

Originally Posted by udolipixie

Bit curious as to how would that help with guy's disappointment as the comment was about how the hostility comes from his lack of dating success. Unless this was a throwaway 'women pay your own' bit.

Presumptuous to believe a guy cant have a successful dating life unless he pays up. tsk tsk shame on you

[Alicant310]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

It's their own fault. Most of the men will let a woman use them for money if she's attractive enough.

Agreed.
I think thats really the bottom line.
Guys, dont put up with it.

[Alicant310]

Originally Posted by mayita

I personally don't like to go out with people who pinch pennies. Just not my thing. I make enough money to go out and eat and have a good time. If you are ******ing about a dinner or drink, in a not the gal for you.

if its not such a big a deal, then you wont have a problem paying for that dinner or drink then right