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And just for the record,as a somewhat bisexual woman, I would hope to marry a straight man,because I know he's better for me, and I deserve the best. I deserve a man that would love me as a woman, because he loves women, and not be thinking about other men while we are making love. A man that loves eating the kitty kat, and have no problem doing that. And I can only find that in a straight man. A COMPLETE STRAIGHT MAN, THAT HAS NOT INTENTION OF BEING WITH A MAN IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM.
Sometimes an open mind can lead to a broken heart.
Baby, you are out there. This just in: What? You are a "somewhat bisexual woman," yet you create all these threads about bisexual men? This is entirely about control, insecurity and low self-esteem on your end. It's obvious this situation occurred to you somewhere along the way and you are now out-of-control. Private investigator and divorce papers ready? I doubt you'll be seeing the altar, or the justice of the peace, any time in your life.
Who needs to watch Jerry Springer? CD Relationships is better, and increases one's reading comprehension and verbal skills in the process.
If he cheated on me with a woman, the first few times I will probably forgive him. But he cheated on me with a man at all? **** THAT ****. I will not even waste time for him to apologize.The dude is gay like most bisexual men are, and he lied to me about it.
I would feel like so low,so pathetic,incompetent,not worthy,I would feel like a failure,stupid,ugly, a clown, a puppet, nothing more than a lap dog, useless, a show monkey.My ego as a woman would be deflated, and in my self esteem would be out the window. All the listed might be the things I would experience if I was in that type of situation where a man cheats on me with another man. Here's another way to look at it.
It's a huge spit in the face, and makes me think that it's true when people, Gay men, and bisexual men hate women.To me it's like they hate women so much they will lead her on making her think he's a straight man,promise her a family, and marriage and eternity of happiness, then one day he cheats on her with a man.He's basically spitting and punching her in the face at the same time. It's a mind game.
I look at it differently. If a guy cheats on you with another guy, it has nothing to do with you as a woman. If he wants a penis, there is nothing you can do about it.
Baby, you are out there. This just in: What? You are a "somewhat bisexual woman," yet you create all these threads about bisexual men? This is entirely about control, insecurity and low self-esteem on your end. It's obvious this situation occurred to you somewhere along the way and you are now out-of-control. Private investigator and divorce papers ready? I doubt you'll be seeing the altar, or the justice of the peace, any time in your life.
Who needs to watch Jerry Springer? CD Relationships is better, and increases one's reading comprehension and verbal skills in the process.
+1. I just saw those statements; they are doozies.
Does it seem justified for a straight woman to break up with guy at a certain point in their relationship because he bisexual?And would any straight, or bisexual women here break up with a guy because he is what he is?
It'd be a dealbreaker for me, and I think there IS a double standard when it comes to bisexuality. I would expect a man to be able to deal with me being bi or bi-curious, even if I didn't act on it...but a man being bi or bi-curious is totally unacceptable to me. I offer no excuses for that; it is what it is.
I was married (faithfully) to a woman for 5 years (together for 10). It was she who wanted a divorce for various reasons. I wanted to stay married. Your first assumption is incorrect.
Plenty of people view porn while in relationships, catching your bi boyfriend viewing gay porn doesn't mean you aren't satisfying him, just like catching your hetero man watching st8 porn doesn't mean you aren't satisfying him. I know many women are insecure about porn, though. With that, your third assumption is wrong.
A couple of things after your interesting post:
a) don't take offense, but I assumed by your name, that you were a woman. I saw the "Dolphin" and I imagined a "Save the dolphins" bumper sticker on a Subaru wagon in pursuit of hippyish hot springs in California or "Burning Man." Your profile told me otherwise.
b) when you were married, did you know, or not know, you were attracted to men? And did your ex-wife know? I know of one foreign woman, reasonably feminine looking but brittle now that I look back on it, who married an American guy, has a son from him, got divorced, and then decided to go to pursue graduate school and live as a lesbian. With that short time frame within which all these things happened, she had to have known all along.
c) the porn thing is pretty funny. It's a huge industry, that's for sure, and all those times I drove through the San Fernando Valley as a teen, I had no idea what was going on in those industrial parks. On the other hand, porn is NOT funny, and some people are addicted to it, throwing away good money after bad. I was once right next to a porn store, so I walked in. Their plastic goods are interesting, to say the least. Then, there are sections with boxes of movies for whatever one's desires are: fetish, interracial, threesomes, conventional, obese women, etc. I glanced at some of the boxes. There was one with a threesome - it showed a white girl with her arm around two white guys. The caption underneath said something like "The sight of two men having sex turned her (4 letter c word) to fire!" I laughed and put it down. A couple of months later, I was driving somewhere with a friend. I told him this exact same phrase I had read on a porn box and he spit out his coffee all over my glove box.
Baby, you are out there. This just in: What? You are a "somewhat bisexual woman," yet you create all these threads about bisexual men? This is entirely about control, insecurity and low self-esteem on your end. It's obvious this situation occurred to you somewhere along the way and you are now out-of-control. Private investigator and divorce papers ready? I doubt you'll be seeing the altar, or the justice of the peace, any time in your life.
Who needs to watch Jerry Springer? CD Relationships is better, and increases one's reading comprehension and verbal skills in the process.
Just so you know, I only had a few relationships, so don't go off judging that I got hurt by some bisexual dude when that's not the case. Stop acting like you know my life, when I only put a portion of it on the web. I have not been in e relationship with a bisexual man and I doubt I ever will.Please stop trying to be Dr.Phil, you suck at it.
And there's nothing wrong with hiring a PI to snoop on your husband.Unless one,cannot afford one.
It'd be a dealbreaker for me, and I think there IS a double standard when it comes to bisexuality. I would expect a man to be able to deal with me being bi or bi-curious, even if I didn't act on it...but a man being bi or bi-curious is totally unacceptable to me. I offer no excuses for that; it is what it is.
For not having that training, I'm actually pretty good at it. If you've been around the block, and the world, and listen to people's life stories, it's pretty easy to see what makes MOST people tick.
For not having that training, I'm actually pretty good at it. If you've been around the block, and the world, and listen to people's life stories, it's pretty easy to see what makes MOST people tick.
Well I am not that girl you speak of, darling.
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yet you create all these threads about bisexual men? This is entirely about control, insecurity and low self-esteem on your end. It's obvious this situation occurred to you somewhere along the way and you are now out-of-control. Private investigator and divorce papers ready? I doubt you'll be seeing the altar, or the justice of the peace, any time in your life.
