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Old 10-29-2012, 11:02 AM
 
Location: Memphis
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I still think the OP has a truly bisexual person and someone who is confused and trying to hide it confused.

Someone who is bisexual and comfortable with his or her sexuality would be no more a concern to cheating then any straight person while a guy who is confused or trying to hide his sexuality would be more likely to cheat.
You are a gay man, so you should not be concerned about me,a woman.Maybe I did experience these things in a past life, but not in this one.
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Old 10-29-2012, 12:51 PM
 
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I still think the OP has a truly bisexual person and someone who is confused and trying to hide it confused.

Someone who is bisexual and comfortable with his or her sexuality would be no more a concern to cheating then any straight person while a guy who is confused or trying to hide his sexuality would be more likely to cheat.
You've got it, it's all about projection. Rural knows she wants carte blanche to cheat, so she's expecting that the bisexual guys she really digs are going to do the same.
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Old 10-29-2012, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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You've got it, it's all about projection. Rural knows she wants carte blanche to cheat, so she's expecting that the bisexual guys she really digs are going to do the same.
Now it's all making sense!
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Old 10-29-2012, 01:17 PM
 
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Now it's all making sense!
Dang, I should have been a psych major.
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Old 10-29-2012, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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You've got it, it's all about projection. Rural knows she wants carte blanche to cheat, so she's expecting that the bisexual guys she really digs are going to do the same.

HAHAHAHA.That's silly

But to be honest, on a serious note.Men are prone to cheat.It's ingrained into them
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Old 10-29-2012, 01:47 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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But to be honest, on a serious note.Men are prone to cheat.It's ingrained into them
HAHAHAHAHAHA! That's silly!

But on a serious note - there are lots of quality people out there of both genders and of all sexual orientations. You just have to have good judgement. Oh - and you also have to be a quality person yourself.
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Old 10-29-2012, 02:05 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I could NEVER date a woman who had knowingly been with a bisexual man. I would drop her like a bad habit.
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Old 10-29-2012, 02:09 PM
 
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Does it seem justified for a straight woman to break up with guy at a certain point in their relationship because he bisexual?And would any straight, or bisexual women here break up with a guy because he is what he is?
umm--yeah---no one is truly bisexual cause when these guys are in a therapeutic situation--the usual real preference is for the same sex imo
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Old 10-29-2012, 02:13 PM
 
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I could NEVER date a woman who had knowingly been with a bisexual man. I would drop her like a bad habit.
That's why in today's world you don't begin a serious relationship without heading to the doctor's office for tests ... TOGETHER. I knew a lady in the Bay Area who went through her clubbing phase during the wrong decade ... and in the wrong city. You had better believe that's something to think about.

I get a kick out of Rural, though. She's probably Memphis's version of the sassy girls I knew in LA as a teen.

Oh, yeah, and this thread is relevant in a medical sense. I was once watching one of the documentary shows and one of the segments was about the increase in HIV infection, and it talked about which demographics were represented by this public health concern. They reported that university health centers in the Southeast were seeing more positive test results among young black men who were evidently "double dipping" while enrolled, and that it was a problem, made worse by the "denial" in that community.
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Old 10-29-2012, 03:06 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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umm--yeah---no one is truly bisexual cause when these guys are in a therapeutic situation--the usual real preference is for the same sex imo
^This may be true
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