What are the chances that my female neighboor lives with her brother? (friend, people)

[MS313]

Originally Posted by robertin75

So can I safely tell her something like "Could I take you out sometime, maybe have some dinner?" even when most likely the guy she lives with is her boyfriend?

The two times that we have talked she has never mentioned him.

Thanks

Yes. As of right now you don't have a clue if she is single or not so just ASSUME that she is, or at least pretend like it if you don't think she is. If she hasn't told you yet then you have nothing to be wrong about. I figure you might not be as much of a home wrecker as me. Personally I wouldn't give a damn who he was even if it was her man. But that's me. You could just flat out ask her if she is talking to anyone right now. If she hasn't mentioned him before then you may be lucky, it's most likely a 50/50 chance if him being her BF or not at this point. It's nothing wrong with hanging with a friend of the opposite sex, boyfriend or not. Just flirt with her a bit, see how she reacts, then ask her if she wants to do something this weekend or tomorrow night or whatever.

Goodluck.

[angelinajolie]

Originally Posted by HonestOne1

If she is hot. Boyfriend = 99%. Fugly. It is her brother.

LOL. living up to the username = awesomeness

I agree with the other poster too if it's 2 br then it's a roommate/bro but 1 br.... I mean honestly OP use the brain. Or just ask.

[robertin75]

Originally Posted by gentlearts

Does she have a two bedroom apartment? I think its fairly common these days for opposite sexes to share an apt platonically.

I have no idea if it's a one or two bedroom apartment

[robertin75]

Originally Posted by HonestOne1

If she is hot. Boyfriend = 99%. Fugly. It is her brother.

She is pretty to me but not hot as you mention.

[robertin75]

Originally Posted by angelinajolie

LOL. living up to the username = awesomeness

I agree with the other poster too if it's 2 br then it's a roommate/bro but 1 br.... I mean honestly OP use the brain. Or just ask.

I agree, if it's a 1 bedroom apartment I think I'm toasted

[Moe'sTavern]

Originally Posted by HonestOne1

If she is hot. Boyfriend = 99%. Fugly. It is her brother.

Originally Posted by robertin75

She is pretty to me but not hot as you mention.

Ah, so the answer must be somewhere in the middle then. Let's just say Roommate.

[robertin75]

Originally Posted by Moe'sTavern

Ah, so the answer must be somewhere in the middle then. Let's just say Roommate.

So why don't ask her out directly once for all? Something like "Could I take you out someday?"

Would I look too agressive or desperate as I have only talked to her 2 times?

Thanks

[filihok]

Originally Posted by robertin75

I agree, if it's a 1 bedroom apartment I think I'm toasted

Obvioulsy, you need to break into the apartment to determine how many bedrooms...

Originally Posted by robertin75

So why don't ask her out directly once for all? Something like "Could I take you out someday?"

Would I look too agressive or desperate as I have only talked to her 2 times?

Thanks

No. That's not aggressive or desperate. That's normal.

I still prefer my idea. Ask them both out. You think that it is her boyfriend, so assume that it is. If she tells you that it's not her boyfriend then you smile and say, "even better".

Or next time you see her you can always just ask her, "is that your boyfriend that I see you with"

[yankeegirl313]

If your interested, just ask her if she is single. That simple.

[robertin75]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

If your interested, just ask her if she is single. That simple.

Agree 100%, pretty simple.

If she's not then move on