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Oh and if you want to throw in some specific circumstances to counter the general rule, here's another one - there is a point after which the arousal can NOT be stopped, no matter what kind of de-stimulating stuff you try to use and no matter how well you are "versed" to keep control over your body. This generally doesn't happen due to "mental stimulation", although it can happen indeed... but it's way more usual with "physical" stuff.
I would certainly hope that someone saying "no" would be sufficient to "stop arousal".
True, but then she should be completely cut off of all contact. Women who do that are a huge liability to men, any man that continues down that road gets what he deserves. Never spend time with a luke warm woman.
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Originally Posted by mishigas73
I would certainly hope that someone saying "no" would be sufficient to "stop arousal".
What if you were dating an amazing guy for a,year and then due to an accident it was determined that he could never have intercourse again, would you leave him?
No, but he'd need to have some other skills! Life without sexual gratification (other than yourself) is not something I'd put up with.
No, but he'd need to have some other skills! Life without sexual gratification (other than yourself) is not something I'd put up with.
Assuming he could still make you orgasm and do other stuff but no intercourse.. I guess the question is whether one could live without intercourse and still be sexually fulfilled even though I know most women don't orgasm through intercourse. Well, I guess he could also use a strap on but it's not exactly the same thing but close enough I guess.
Assuming he could still make you orgasm and do other stuff but no intercourse.. I guess the question is whether one could live without intercourse and still be sexually fulfilled even though I know most women don't orgasm through intercourse. Well, I guess he could also use a strap on but it's not exactly the same thing but close enough I guess.
Yeah...intercourse is overrated...I think for some guys too - other things are just "easier"...ha
I'm not going to contest other stuff you wrote because I don't want to enter complicated discussions on stuff I am personally not familiar with. I solely reply to dispel the common story about brain as "biggest" sexual organ. It might be bigger than "that specific body part" in terms of size and thoughts CAN seriously amplify or decrease the arousal, but let's not fool around - one isn't required to "think" or "imagine" stuff in order to get off in general and the other stimulation is far easier when done in "proper way".
A general rule is that the "main factor" is rather related to you-know-what. One may be extremely stimulated with sexual content to stimulate the brain and induce a "reaction", while the other person can simply be stimulated with sexual intercourse even while trying to use brain to think of diminish the arousal.
A real dollar question is left for you to answer for yourself: What do you think which stimulation will be stronger? Oh and if you want to throw in some specific circumstances to counter the general rule, here's another one - there is a point after which the arousal can NOT be stopped, no matter what kind of de-stimulating stuff you try to use and no matter how well you are "versed" to keep control over your body. This generally doesn't happen due to "mental stimulation", although it can happen indeed... but it's way more usual with "physical" stuff.
In short, regarding bold part - you are trying to switch the rare exception into a general rule.
This is why it's so much important to "better" one's "skills" not just the attentiveness. One can be all good and attentive but simply fail because of the "inability to deliver" and it'll generally expected to cause a serious rift in a relationship.
Actually for most women, imagination and the mind plays a large role in orgasm. You still need skills, but it' not like with a guy, that if it feels good it doesn't matter what's going on in our mind. To be sure, hormones play the biggest role, but with a guy, I could probably bring to orgasm even if he was mad at me or thinking of breaking up with me, while a woman would probably not get to that point under the same situation.
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