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You are young and you have only been with guys who don't treat you very well. Hopefully, as you get more mature, you will start to make better choices in guys and you will find guys that will want to treat you better. Then you might find that it is actually better than it is on TV.
Obviously, relationships should not be based 100% on sex. However, would you be able to stay with someone if their sex was not pleasing you. What if they only were able to provide you with good sex when they were drunk? If you were to break up with them would you tell them the reason that you no longer wanted to be with them was because their sex was not good?
I would make her an alcoholic then JK. Sex takes practice to get good. Hell my first time I had no clue what I was doing. But I had some great lessons. I dont see how someone can be that bad at sex though. There is porn. Hell there are guides on what to do. Or maybe the partener is bad and can't get the other off and what they think is bad sex is actually enduring through what could be compared as screwing a epileptic in the middle of a seizure.
I dated girl once and holy crap she couldn't even kiss right she did this open mouth sucker fish jaw spasm. It was a wtf moment. But she just had no experience in kissing. She had sex with a guy but it was a quick stick it in before my parents get home. But watching some movies, practicing making out lots of dry humping and touchiecfeelie she got the hang of it and we did some rodeo sessions
I'm chuckling at the idea that the "vast majority" would have considered what Monica did to Bill as not sexual. Everyone I knew at the time, and have spoken about it with since then, have been of the mindset that he did in fact have "sexual relations with that woman". Guess all of these folks are "outliers" too?
In Bill's opinion, unless he left Monica with a chewed up lip (like the other women haunting him), then it probably wasn't sex in his opinion...FWIW.
I would make her an alcoholic then JK. Sex takes practice to get good. Hell my first time I had no clue what I was doing. But I had some great lessons. I dont see how someone can be that bad at sex though. There is porn. Hell there are guides on what to do. Or maybe the partener is bad and can't get the other off and what they think is bad sex is actually enduring through what could be compared as screwing a epileptic in the middle of a seizure.
I dated girl once and holy crap she couldn't even kiss right she did this open mouth sucker fish jaw spasm. It was a wtf moment. But she just had no experience in kissing. She had sex with a guy but it was a quick stick it in before my parents get home. But watching some movies, practicing making out lots of dry humping and touchiecfeelie she got the hang of it and we did some rodeo sessions
That brings to mind, there could be one thing worse than guy living in a basement with no sex experience hence ignorant of good sex.
An inexperienced guy living in a basement who's not allowed to access porn and therefore has no access to online tutorials.
And people unable to preform penetrative sex wouldn't define sex differently?
It's why you do the act, not how You accomplish it that ultimately defines its importance and how much gratification is gained.
Intimacy is what creates a connection.
in the case of sexuality it's sexual intimacy that defines the connection, which does not require "traditional" penetrative intercourse to build or maintain.
Oh for Goodness sakes...intercourse, actually having your body entered by another person IS more intimate than oral and results in a connection that is a different type of bond for most people. It just does. For me, there is an "ownership" aspect to being entered that way that makes me feel safe, and that is what creates the bond more than anything for many women.
Oh for Goodness sakes...intercourse, actually having your body entered by another person IS more intimate than oral and results in a connection that is a different type of bond for most people. It just does. For me, there is an "ownership" aspect to being entered that way that makes me feel safe, and that is what creates the bond more than anything for many women.
If only there were some other appendages that could do that.
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