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Originally Posted by El Mambi
Thanks for the compliment.
Why is it so wrong?
Because there is tons of bad sex out there. With a lot of people, it isn't worth taking your clothes off.
There is that saying, "Sex is like pizza, even when it is bad, it is good", except that bad pizza gets thrown in the trash uneaten, and bad sex isn't worth having.
And the best of the many partners I've experienced had one thing in common. It was not all about PIV, and the other stuff was what made it amazing. No man has ever blown my mind with his D. No matter how big it was or how long he could last or what position. Think I'm a vocal minority? Start a poll. Ask how many women think that PIV is the defining, or most enjoyable sexual act, versus how many do not, and ask men the same thing.
Something like 60-70% of women don't climax from PIV. However, for most of those that do, the PIV is definitely the thing.
Maybe it's me but I'd rather be with someone who treats me right, is a good person, who shares similar values like me , a good partner instead of saying well the way he is in bed will determine if I want to stay with him/her.
Maybe it's me but I'd rather be with someone who treats me right, is a good person, who shares similar values like me , a good partner instead of saying well the way he is in bed will determine if I want to stay with him/her.
To each their own but that's how I see it.
I see it as...it's a factor, but not the only one.
What kind of relationship you're trying to have will have a lot of bearing on this, too. If you are seeking the path of Date - Get "serious" - Live together - Marry - Make babies - Suburban happily ever after...then yeah, what you said. Though if the sex is truly BAD (in a marriage this usually means not happening very often if at all) then it's going to cause problems long term.
Big difference too between typical/OK sex, and BAD sex.
In a decent relationship, OK sex can be forgiven because other things are good. It's worse when it's completely unfulfilling or not happening much or at all.
If you are doing a different, less traditional, or more casual relationship style, then sex that is not GOOD is not really worth it. You're not invested enough to put up with something like that when you could try with someone else...assuming you don't have any trouble finding willing participants.
I can't even imagine a quickie being 3 minutes. Seriously.
Its not like how it is on tv that for sure lol.
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