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Old 03-20-2013, 06:15 PM
 
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I've been seeing this guy for a month now...like six dates. Just curious, usually how Long does it take for a man to ask a woman to be his girlfriend? I'm starting to get impatient and look elsewhere but I really like this guy and think we'd be good together. Is he not as interested as he seems? And no we haven't slept together lol.
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Old 03-20-2013, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Could be days. Could be years. Could be never and he'll just keep referring to you as his 'friend' until a better prospect comes along.

A month doesn't seem like very long though...if he was interested in making you his girlfriend he would have asked. Pretty simple.
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Old 03-20-2013, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Ahahaha.........so sorry. Alright just keep dating him. Don't worry about titles! Men don't like them right away. My advice wait wait wait. Or if he says anything then go for it.
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Old 03-20-2013, 06:28 PM
 
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It depends
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Old 03-20-2013, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Rio
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Well for me, if i like a girl i have to get to know her and if shes single and im single.. no games are to be played. ITS OFFICIAL
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Old 03-20-2013, 06:34 PM
 
Location: CT
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My ex and I were "friends"for a month before he asked me out....in Spanish.... because we were both taking Spanish.
Depends on the guy if he is shy or not. Usually the title of "boyfriend" is easier to handle instead of the title "fiance" or "husband" because unfortunately boyfriends aren't always permanent and therefore its easier for guys to wrap their head aroud that. Thats just what my guy friends tell me, but every guy is different of course!!
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Old 03-20-2013, 07:30 PM
 
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I give up then...moving on
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Old 03-20-2013, 07:36 PM
 
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my last took me a year and a half....and it was rescinded 2 days later...
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Old 03-20-2013, 07:42 PM
 
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I've known someone who thought after a few nights of sex, he made it official. She flipped her lid and left him as she was embarrassed to be thought of as his girlfriend.

Figured they had to chat about it before telling the rest of the world I reckon.
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Old 03-20-2013, 10:33 PM
 
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I make it official at the first kiss. Excluding one night stands, you wouldn't kiss someone who you are not in a relationship with.
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