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Old 04-14-2013, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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We need a driver's license to operate a vehicle, I have no ideas why a parenting license is not required?
SOME SOME SOME ( I didn't say all, I said SOME) dumb women got pregnant by men who had no feelings for them in the first place, they ignored all the red flags and chose to get pregnant anyway. Later on they claim everybody just needs to accept there choices. Too damn pathetic!

 
Old 04-14-2013, 09:46 AM
 
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We need a driver's license to operate a vehicle, I have no ideas why a parenting license is not required?
SOME SOME SOME ( I didn't say all, I said SOME) dumb women got pregnant by men who had no feelings for them in the first place, they ignored all the red flags and chose to get pregnant anyway. Later on they claim everybody just needs to accept there choices. Too damn pathetic!
Who is this everybody that needs to accept anything? I personally don't feel any pressure from single or divorced moms/dads to accept or do anything. Everybody has a different story, so I don't see the point in grouping people together based on only one or two characteristics. As long as they are taking care of their business, and the vast majority appear to do so, then it should be all good.
 
Old 04-14-2013, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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We need a driver's license to operate a vehicle, I have no ideas why a parenting license is not required?
SOME SOME SOME ( I didn't say all, I said SOME) dumb women got pregnant by men who had no feelings for them in the first place, they ignored all the red flags and chose to get pregnant anyway. Later on they claim everybody just needs to accept there choices. Too damn pathetic!
SOME not ALL
 
Old 04-14-2013, 09:53 AM
 
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SOME not ALL
Yea, ok. I still don't follow who is supposed to accept it and why that matters.
 
Old 04-14-2013, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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That's crap you can't take extra birth control pill, do you know how strong those are? I'm not even allowed more until I get my blood pressure and weight checked every 12weeks!

The pill I was on was to help regulate me actually as I have PCOS! I didn't think I could even have kids!
There are actually natural ways to improve the symptoms of PCOS, by cutting back on red meat and refined sugar in your diet.

I really feel for you, PCOS is no fun. My mother had it, so did my aunt.
 
Old 04-14-2013, 09:59 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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My father used to say "If a woman is good enough to have sex with she is good enough to marry" - If you get a woman pregnant - You put in your 20 years and stay...That's what I did. Now I have four beautiful adult kids. Getting some one pregnant is a gift and a privilege it is not a cures or inconvenience. Any man who would walk away is a worm. You make your bed- You sleep in it. Worst things could happen - Like never getting a woman pregnant.
 
Old 04-14-2013, 10:00 AM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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That he's a no good dog basically .
 
Old 04-14-2013, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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it depends on why he left, if he will still be present or supportive of the child etc etc etc

there is no one solid blanket answer to this question. sometimes it for the best of everyone involved that someones leaves.

this said, i didn't read the other pages (just a lot of bickering that i couldn't make it through tbh) so if details where posted later on down the line my comments don't reflect upon them specifically
great post.

It is acceptable to leave the relationship, but it is NOT acceptable to dodge the responsibility. These men have a label "deadbeat"

End of the story.
 
Old 04-14-2013, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I haven't read the entire thread.

If a man leaves you because you got pregnant, then he was either childfree or never really committed to you at all.

I don't believe that condoms can fail without perfect use (no holes, rips, doesn't slip off). HOW would sperm penetrate a condom without any holes??? HOW? That isn't possible.

I don't buy the "super fertile" excuse. Some people are just careless with their birth control or lied and deliberately got pregnant. A lot of people don't know that if a woman has the flu, is taking antibiotics/st johns wort, vomits or has diarrhoea, she needs to take extra birth control pills to make up for decrease in hormones or simply use another birth control method.
Damn! I am sure you've heard

"NO condom prevents pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) 100% of the time?"

a condom breaks or slips off NO?
 
Old 04-14-2013, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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No, I never said such a thing. I actually said they were both responsible for it. My brother was 41 at the time so he was old enough to know you never have sex without a condom. But she also didn't take care of her birth control.

My family is like any other family around the world. With plenty of qualities and faults.
My ex boyfriend was on chemotherapy and he was allergic to latex or waterbased condoms. He still didn't want me to take birth control because it has a lot of side effects. He insisted on using condoms to prevent pregnancy or intoxicate me with chemo drugs.

There are differences between a real man and a male animal.
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