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Old 08-02-2013, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Texas
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You know part of a man's pride is in his penis. Telling him he's the smallest man you ever slept with is a massive blow to he ego and let's be honest he won't recover easy or at all. Be prepared for the fact that he may never forgive you since you can't take back what you said.
The op was totally out of line.
She was rude. She was crass. She was insensitive.

But what if it is true?
She should lie to this guy cuz his ego is tied up in his penie?
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Old 08-02-2013, 11:30 PM
 
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The op was totally out of line.
She was rude. She was crass. She was insensitive.

But what if it is true?
She should lie to this guy cuz his ego is tied up in his penie?
Nope. Tell the truth. If his penis was the smallest and she meant it don't take it back. Be responsible for your words. If he forgives her then she's lucky, but she should prepare for him to leave.
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Old 08-02-2013, 11:37 PM
 
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Nope. Tell the truth. If his penis was the smallest and she meant it don't take it back. Be responsible for your words. If he forgives her then she's lucky, but she should prepare for him to leave.
Forgives her for his having a small penis?

We all agree the public declaration was asinine. I mean just if he found out that he was the smallest she ever had.
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Old 08-02-2013, 11:44 PM
 
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Forgives her for his having a small penis?

We all agree the public declaration was asinine. I mean just if he found out that he was the smallest she ever had.
No forgives her for the comment. It's too late to take it back. He has the smallest she's ever seen. If he doesn't forgive her for the comment that's his choice. She shouldn't have said it, but it's her right to do so. Now she has to suffer the consequences.
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Old 08-02-2013, 11:45 PM
 
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No forgives her for the comment. It's too late to take it back. He has the smallest she's ever seen. If he doesn't forgive her for the comment that's his choice. She shouldn't have said it, but it's her right to do so. Now she has to suffer the consequences.
My question to you is what if he had asked and she told him the truth in private?

We all agree the public thing was terrible.
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Old 08-02-2013, 11:47 PM
 
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My question to you is what if he had asked and she told him the truth in private?

We all agree the public thing was terrible.
It would be less painful, but telling a man his penis is the smallest she's ever had? How do you think he would feel? Good? Fine? I'd say probably very bad.
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Old 08-03-2013, 12:01 AM
 
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It would be less painful, but telling a man his penis is the smallest she's ever had? How do you think he would feel? Good? Fine? I'd say probably very bad.
So she should lie bc it does not matter that she loves him or chose him over all the others.
All that matters is that he had the smallest penis relative to a bunch of guys he will never meet.

That is mature.
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Old 08-03-2013, 12:03 AM
 
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So she should lie bc it does not matter that she loves him or chose him over all the others.
All that matters is that he had the smallest penis relative to a bunch of guys he will never meet.

That is mature.
She shouldn't have to lie, but she shouldn't expect a man stay with her after saying he has the smallest penis she's ever had. By that logic a woman should stay with a man who says she's the fattest or ugliest woman he's ever been with. Why lie about it right?
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Old 08-03-2013, 12:08 AM
 
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Fat and ugly are said meaning to insult.
Ugly is also subjective.
The size of something is objective.
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Old 08-03-2013, 12:09 AM
 
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Fat and ugly are said meaning to insult.
Ugly is also subjective.
The size of something is objective.
So telling a man he has a small penis is a compliment?
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