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sex this and sex that...its the intent for doing so that separates the action.
you cant just blanket wash everything and everyone, just as you cant say: ive slept with hundreds of girls and because i had to REALLY work for it, its made me a better person then the females who have had it so "easy"
why aren't men as picky as women for better lovers in bed? i think men should want highly experiened lovers as well.
It might be because men in general always finish, no matter who their sexual partners are. It's like the only people you hear say things like "all sex is good sex. Even when it's bad, it's good" are guys. Plently of women wouldn't agree with that. There is bad sex. Women don't always have a good time, so if they're unsure of good sex, why bother?
The entire concept of sex as an accomplishment or challenge is completely foreign to me.
It's often said that, it's a double standard that women who are promiscuous are labelled whores, sluts.etc, while men who are are often praised and seen as more virile, popular.etc.
Praised and popular with a bunch of other dbs that I would avoid like the bubonic plague.
It's often said that, it's a double standard that women who are promiscuous are labelled whores, sluts.etc, while men who are are often praised and seen as more virile, popular.etc.
I mean in a sense it's true...and of course, before, I thought it was pretty bad. I don't really think anyone should be flinging around insults etc anyway, unless that person's behaviour is harming others, but then I got thinking, they're not really the same thing, in most cases...
Here's why...
For the majority of decent looking women, all they have to do is 'open the gates' and that's that.
For most men, however, it actually takes a little more effort...Mother nature/society has made it that men are supposed to be the pursuers so bedding 100 women is usually some kind of achievement. Maybe not the most noble kind, but an achievement nonetheless. Unless you've got great genetics, but even then...Wilt Chamberlin or Charlie Sheen did have to work to get where they were in order to be as popular to bed the thousands of women they did (which is way too many for me)...I know women who are overweight, unemployed, with terrible personalities who love sex and have a ready supply of men to screw them. Most men like that aren't getting any.
I know some will take offence, but I'm wondering if anyone agrees that while i actually agree it ISN'T FAIR that women are totally demeaned etc for being promiscuous or liking sex (maybe that's changing though) while men aren't, that we're not exactly comparing apples and apples here.
Ok look, these overweight, god awful women are not screwing the hot guys. You know who is, the overweight, unemployed, god awful guys. You know who the hot guys are screwing, yep, the hot women. And the mediocre women are screwing the mediocre men.
Every now and then there is a ripple in the universe and you will see a hot chick bang a fugly guy or a fugly chick band a hot guy.
Contrary to the male perspective on this forum the majority of decent looking women do not just open the gates to let anything in. They too put effort into finding a decent looking guy they are physically attracted to. Sometimes we even have to find some aspect of his character appealing before we want to "open the gate".
In my experience it is far more promiscuous men that are indiscriminate. Some will do it with anything willing that has an orifice and a heart beat. They just don't brag about those.
The fact that women are more particular about who they sleep with and thus pass over the unattractive guys does not mean she doesn't put forth any effort. Quiet the opposite. So yes, apples to apples.
I guess in theory...but I'm saying it's easier for the average woman to be a **** than a man, so probably less of an achievement? haha
Not if neither give a rats behind what they are having sex with. An average man could easily have sex. There are lots of women out there who are not getting any, old women, fat women, ugly women, stinky women, heck even transsexuals, bisexuals and homosexuals.
Average women have sex with average men.
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