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They too put effort into finding a decent looking guy they are physically attracted to. Sometimes we even have to find some aspect of his character appealing before we want to "open the gate".
I don't get this whole effort thing. I never put even a teeny effort into finding anyone. (Obviously thread after thread tells that I think this gate thing is the dumbest thing ever.) I just lived. Did things I thought were fun, interesting, whatever. I met other people who thought that they were fun, interesting or whatever. We talked and thought, hey YOU are fun, interesting or whatever. If it is a steamy vibe, you go out. If it is a steamy vibe and you make me laugh, we are good to go straight away. If it is not a steamy vibe, you hang out. Over time, you get to know the dude, and think wow the way he treated his Mom just there was really telling. Or did he REALLY just issue me a command like I was his servant... Or whatever leads down the road to thinking maybe the character is not there.
But I can tell you two things.
If a dude is trying to score on me, then go f yourself. You are a lousy lay, and I don't have time for you. Hot is not even in it.
When people go on about how to GET a woman/man or FIND a this or that woman/man I want to scream GO GET A LIFE AND LIVE IT, then maybe love can find you.
Mother nature/society has made it that men are supposed to be the pursuers so bedding 100 women is usually some kind of achievement.
That's not true. CULTURE has created the expectation that men pursue. Primitive, natural societies are egalitarian, and women are as promiscuous as men.
I don't get this whole effort thing. I never put even a teeny effort into finding anyone. (Obviously thread after thread tells that I think this gate thing is the dumbest thing ever.) I just lived. Did things I thought were fun, interesting, whatever. I met other people who thought that they were fun, interesting or whatever. We talked and thought, hey YOU are fun, interesting or whatever. If it is a steamy vibe, you go out. If it is a steamy vibe and you make me laugh, we are good to go straight away. If it is not a steamy vibe, you hang out. Over time, you get to know the dude, and think wow the way he treated his Mom just there was really telling. Or did he REALLY just issue me a command like I was his servant... Or whatever leads down the road to thinking maybe the character is not there.
But I can tell you two things.
If a dude is trying to score on me, then go f yourself. You are a lousy lay, and I don't have time for you. Hot is not even in it.
When people go on about how to GET a woman/man or FIND a this or that woman/man I want to scream GO GET A LIFE AND LIVE IT, then maybe love can find you.
I guess the effort is more in weeding out, for women anyway. You know because we have all these dudes lining up to get thru our gate.
Also, in rural areas just finding your appropriate demographic. Venues are sometimes limited. Other than that I don't see the effort.
I guess the effort is more in weeding out, for women anyway. You know because we have all these dudes lining up to get thru our gate.
I guess I can see why it takes so much effort on their part. Because that kind of guy never even got up the driveway, forget the gate. I will bet a dollar that they would have it easier if they chilled out and were human beings.
I guess I can see why it takes so much effort on their part. Because that kind of guy never even got up the driveway, forget the gate. I will bet a dollar that they would have it easier if they chilled out and were human beings.
Come on. We are speaking in generalities. For the guys that can get with a lot of good looking women, it's not that hard, we've perfected the craft. But for the average guy, it seems like its hard because they can't do it.
But a woman with mediocre looks (i.e. attractive enough to sleep with) can sleep with good looking / hot men MUCH easier than her average male counterpart.
I guess I can see why it takes so much effort on their part. Because that kind of guy never even got up the driveway, forget the gate. I will bet a dollar that they would have it easier if they chilled out and were human beings.
I wish hot men were lined up in my driveway. I'm to old to go chasing them around, wasting my precious energy.
But a woman with mediocre looks (i.e. attractive enough to sleep with) can sleep with good looking / hot men MUCH easier than her average male counterpart.
LOL. I guess that depends on your geographic location. In some areas men can sleep with good looking / hot men MUCH easier than women can.
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