She gets in bed with you; are you expected to make a move? (boyfriend, girlfriend)
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No. She wasn't inviting him to have sex with her. When a woman genuinely wants to get laid and has a captive man sitting on her bed watching TV with her? She makes a move.
My guess is that she was expecting more overt interest from him so that she could gauge his interest in her and use it to control their interactions.
I suspect she was on the fence about the OP already.
If she was really into him and only got a goodnight kiss, she would likely have needed a verbal reassurance that he was interested.
The OP could've just told her it was all he could do to maintain his gentlemanly behavior that night. Girl would've been flattered. Felt more confident. Next time she asked him over? Game on.
Trust me. I never had problems like some of the crazy mess I read on here. Sheesh.
In my experience theres a much better chance she wouldn't have turned me down.
I would bet my experience is far, far larger than yours as well.
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I'm sure you have more experience with women, being male and all.
I bet I know plenty of males with far more experience than you, me being older than you AND having a ton of male friends who were major players. Hell, some still are.
Still, the point of this thread did not seem to be a huge disappointment over not getting laid ONE time. It appears to be over losing the girl in general and thus, losing the opportunity to get laid on a repeated basis. You know. During an actual relationship.
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I must know a lot of chicks who are dominant, then. I have exactly zero female friends who won't come on to a guy if they are really in the mood for sex.
I'm not saying they're gonna reach down a man's pants and start grabbing, but what chick won't initiate a kiss? That usually goes a long way.
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I'm starting to realize that my thoughts are BS sometimes. Sometimes you just have to be a man.
Is it weird that I had her in bed and didn't try to do anything?
yes your thoughts were BS but i'm sure you've already been pretty beat up about this in the thread. i remember being that young and foolish too though. it's OK as long as you learn from it. just make sure you never make the mistake again! otherwise you'll wind up like one of our terminally whining "nice guys" in this forum
although if you don't ever get another chance to hook up with this gal you will be kicking yourself for a while afterward
yes your thoughts were BS but i'm sure you've already been pretty beat up about this in the thread. i remember being that young and foolish too though. it's OK as long as you learn from it. just make sure you never make the mistake again! otherwise you'll wind up like one of our terminally whining "nice guys" in this forum
although if you don't ever get another chance to hook up with this gal you will be kicking yourself for a while afterward
It's over. Not only does she have a bf, but I'm out of school now & she's halfway across the country. I've tried making her my enemy (in my head at least) but that only makes it worse. There's really nothing I can do and It's driving me insane. I would try to hook up with other girls but I'm back at my parents house, so that's not happening anytime soon.
Is there anything I can do to make it better?
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