Why do some people say looks don't matter??? (married, man, 2013)
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Looks are huge. Don't let anyone fool you, but there is a lot that a person can do to change and improve their looks. Guys can get a fashionable hair cut, get in shape, lose some weight, some nice clothes and shoes. They could even get some training in manners and how to act, keep clean, have a reasonably nice car, without going overboard. Women do all kinds of things to improve their looks, men can do the same. Its not all just "natural", either you got or you don't. BS.
Posts like this always assume that any given man or woman actually needs to lose weight and doesn't have nice clothes and shoes. If they've already got those bases covered, there's not much more that can be done.
Last edited by Ruth4Truth; 09-02-2013 at 12:08 PM..
All this talk about looks. It makes you wonder that if looks matter this much than how is it that all of these "ugly people" and fat people have kids. Something doesn't add up
Looks 100% do matter. I've gotten away with plenty where as the average person would not. We as a society place good looking people of both genders on pedestals. We overlook their flaws and make excuses for them. I've done it, people have done it with me.
But also, how often have we seen good looking people bounce from relationship to relationship, unable to hold down a job, or have fans and admirers instead of friends? Some people have literally nothing to offer other than good looks. And life hits them like a ton of bricks when they're 40-45 and their looks have at least partially faded.
People are as shallow as their options..the people who dont value looks at all are people who arent attratcive enough tobe picky about looks and have to take what they can get physically speaking..
There could be a lot of reasons; for example: a guy who is not especially good-looking, but makes the best of what he has instead of what he lacks.
It's called a positive "attitude". It makes as much, or more, of a difference than how good or bad you look.
Oh please stop with this its all about your attitude stuff..an unattractive guy isnt gonna have nearly as many options as a good looking guy point blank..
People are as shallow as their options..the people who dont value looks at all are people who arent attratcive enough tobe picky about looks and have to take what they can get physically speaking..
And this confirms that leagues do exist. There are exceptions, but couples are generally pretty close to even in terms of physical appearance. You'll see an 8 with a 7 fairly often, but an 8 with a 4 is not common at all.
Oh please stop with this its all about your attitude stuff..an unattractive guy isnt gonna have nearly as many options as a good looking guy point blank..
Its not impossible to attract somebody eventually but to say an unattractive guy can be on a level playing field with a real good looking guy is horsesh!t..
I have a good looking friend who most women find attractive i see how easy it is for him without much effort..
Its not impossible to attract somebody eventually but to say an unattractive guy can be on a level playing field with a real good looking guy is horsesh!t..
I have a good looking friend who most women find attractive i see how easy it is for him without much effort..
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