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I will NEVER say that looks don't matter, as I've always liked men who are typically considered handsome. But I've also(to a much lesser degree, but still noticeably) liked men who aren't so blessed in the looks dept, but had lots of other stuff going for them that made them, overall, very appealing and attractive.
My current boyfriend fits the latter description, but it has more to do with his weight than his phenotypical features.
While I think that physical features are important, they certainly aren't the be all and end all for relationships. Very attractive people oscillate in and out of relationships on a very frequent basis. Clearly, looks alone aren't enough to keep them in serious, long term relationships.
Looks are huge. Don't let anyone fool you, but there is a lot that a person can do to change and improve their looks. Guys can get a fashionable hair cut, get in shape, lose some weight, some nice clothes and shoes. They could even get some training in manners and how to act, keep clean, have a reasonably nice car, without going overboard. Women do all kinds of things to improve their looks, men can do the same. Its not all just "natural", either you got or you don't. BS.
Wow, look at how much a man who's not attractive has to do just to get a woman.
All this talk about looks. It makes you wonder that if looks matter this much than how is it that all of these "ugly people" and fat people have kids. Something doesn't add up
Because ugly and fat people date and marry other ugly and fat people, is it really that hard to understand?
I was recently watching a tv serial that had this hot guy as one of the main characters.
Hot hot hot.
Then it turns out he is a scheming, heartless, manipulator.
He got ugly really fast. Strange, but it was amazing how quickly he became extremely physically unattractive because of his deeds.
This other guy who is more so-so looking (no chin, ick beard) has gotten more attractive because of how he acts.
I agree as well. Most of my friends thought my ex-fiance was super hot - and one of my friends thought he was ugly. I would never be attracted to the guys that most of my friends have dated/married. And there have been guys that I wasn't attracted to at first but who grew on me once I got to know them. There have also been guys that I found completely unattractive after getting to know them even though I thought they were attractive at first.
I always hear this from women on here talking about the looks of their friends s/o..why do women tell their friends if they think their partners ugly? my god thats classless if i said that to my male friends about their wife i get punched in the face..
Do most women just have no filter?
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my god thats classless if i said that to my male friends about their wife i get punched in the face..
