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Old 11-04-2013, 08:59 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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And you wanna cuddle with a odd looking bad smelling needle dick guy that has scabs or sores? Yet you got freaky with him when he had all that going on? Damn you're brave taking on a guy with gonnhaherpasyphilitys.
I didn't say that people don't have the right to say stop. Sure you can stop. But It's a wtf did I do moment. What I am saying is WHY go through all that freaky stuff and then say stop let's cuddle. Good night. Huh?
Let's say you're hot and heavy with a guy and he just has you purring. And then he gets you almost there and then stops and. Turns over. Let's cuddle and falls asleep. You're telling me that you won't be the least confused? And you'll just cuddle and go to sleep. Or would you say hey whaypt so the deal? I thought we were having a good time
I would ask him what was wrong and to talk to him about what is going on to gain clarity in that moment. I wouldn't NOT ask him and then run to an anonymous message board for input from people. We would certainly need to talk it out before anyone get any sleep.

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Old 11-04-2013, 09:12 PM
 
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So she is willing to do anything under the sun but that? Sort of a Im saving myself only do that one thing with the special man in my life but I'll let this guy do anything but that?
It's not an uncommon rule.

It may seem a silly line to draw, for those of us with some experience, but people get to set their boundaries wherever they want.
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Old 11-04-2013, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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Sort of like Pretty Woman where she wouldn't kiss her customers because it's too intimate?
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Old 11-04-2013, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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I would ask him what was wrong and to talk to him about what is going on to gain clarity in that moment. I wouldn't NOT ask him and then run to an anonymous message board for input from people. We would certainly need to talk it out before anyone got any sleep.

Wow you're pretty nice. I would be disgusted if I was a woman ( why does that not sound right any way I say it)
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Old 11-04-2013, 09:35 PM
 
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Sort of like Pretty Woman where she wouldn't kiss her customers because it's too intimate?
Yes .

I have heard that is another frequent rule....
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Old 11-04-2013, 10:12 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Wow you're pretty nice. I would be disgusted if I was a woman ( why does that not sound right any way I say it)
How else would one learn what their partner's issue happened to be without talking about it? His overall needs/worries/concerns are more important than me getting my jollies in that single moment.
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Old 11-04-2013, 10:19 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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How else would one learn what their partner's issue happened to be without talking about it? His overall needs/worries/concerns are more important than me getting my jollies in that single moment.


Yeah but I think were talking two different things

you're talking a relationship thing I talking about the guy she dragged home from the bar. Relationship/feelings/love yeah I agree with you but scab small penis Quasimodo man you picked up from the bar?
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Old 11-05-2013, 08:27 AM
 
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Sort of like Pretty Woman where she wouldn't kiss her customers because it's too intimate?
Yeah I never understood that. It is all intimate to me (which is why I could never be a hooker) and I would be frustrated to say the least, if there was all this other stuff, but no intercourse.
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Old 11-05-2013, 08:39 AM
 
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So she is willing to do anything under the sun but that?
You'd better believe it. "Anything but that" does not run the risk of an unwanted pregnancy.

Why are you so hung up on this? Women don't owe it to you to be penetrated.
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Old 11-05-2013, 08:56 AM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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You'd better believe it. "Anything but that" does not run the risk of an unwanted pregnancy.

Why are you so hung up on this? Women don't owe it to you to be penetrated.
I'm not hung up on anything. I just don't get the way it's reasoned out.
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