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Old 11-02-2013, 10:50 PM
 
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so i've gone on dates with several girls where we do pretty much everything except for sexual intercourse.

we take all our clothes off, we do all types of foreplay, but when i say "i'm going to put a condom on", they stop me and say "no intercourse". and it ends right there. we go to sleep and we don't have sex.

why do girls do this? i'm really confused.

if they are willing to do everything else, why not go ahead and have sexual intercourse?
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Old 11-02-2013, 10:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Maybe they aren't on the pill? Getting their period.Are a virgin?
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Old 11-02-2013, 10:55 PM
 
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Maybe they think they'll never get that sort of foreplay again once they start having intercourse with you.
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Old 11-02-2013, 10:56 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Foreplay.... somehow, I think that it was misnamed........
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I always felt that sex was something special. I enjoyed fooling around but I wasn't about to sleep with every guy that I wanted to just fool around with. But that's just me.
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:03 PM
 
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Some cultures teach that if you have every kind of sex except for intercourse you are more pure. Google 'abstinence' for more info.

Or it could just be that you were not good enough at the other kids of sex so they decided to give up...
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:03 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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so i've gone on dates with several girls where we do pretty much everything except for sexual intercourse.

we take all our clothes off, we do all types of foreplay, but when i say "i'm going to put a condom on", they stop me and say "no intercourse". and it ends right there. we go to sleep and we don't have sex.

why do girls do this? i'm really confused.

if they are willing to do everything else, why not go ahead and have sexual intercourse?
Maybe because some of them are compassionate to you and not sure if they will follow through on their promises to you in the event of an unwanted pregnancy?
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:03 PM
 
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Foreplay doesn't always have to lead to sex. Leave your expectations at the door and you won't be disappointed.
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:54 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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@The OP: Did these women allow you to take and to keep hot pics of them, though?
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Old 11-03-2013, 01:57 AM
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Some women/girls don't have a problems with foreplay but do not want intercourse either because of religious reasons, because they want to wait until they are married, because they are not ready to have sex with you yet, maybe because they are afraid of STD's or getting pregnant. Even if they don't want to have intercourse there are other ways to have a happy ending.
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