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Originally Posted by pan zareta
I've been dating a man for about 2.5 years and am 13 weeks pregnant. We have a good relationship but he always told me that he didn't have emotional feelings for me; just more like a best friend. Now that he has found out about the pregnancy he is begging me to marry him. But I don't know if I can see it, because I know he would not consider it otherwise. The pregnancy was not planned but is very wanted after I got over the shock. We are both early 40's so its not like we are kids. I just don't know if I can face being married to someone that I love very much and knowing he does not love me... for the rest of my life.
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Your "marriage" would be a sham. Don't do it. Share custody. Find someone who really loves you. Be alot happier. I've known couples who are only together for the kids, status, etc. and I totally feel sorry for the wives. One moment he is picking up on, flirting with, and playing around with everything that moves. The next moment, he goes home and plays husband/father etc.. Total sham.
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