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Most of the responses here are disappointing. I'm not interested in casual sex, and I'm not going to have sex until I know the relationship is going somewhere long term. But then again, any guy who dumps me because I won't have sex by the 5th date or whatever arbitrary convention he's come up with is clearly not a *quality* man that I'd want to be involved with.
Very true indeed and that's one way to find out that guy would already give in if given the opportunity with any random woman he can't even call his gf. That right there is definitely not a quality, wholesome man. What those types will get in return is women that have no problems with casual, quick sex.
I've been divorced and alone for years, ( NOT gay) and if I date a woman I let her make the decision if it goes in that direction or not. I'm fine, either way.
I've had platonic relationships with women, that could have changed in a split moment, but my discipline kept it platonic.
It's not a deal breaker with me, at my age.
Very true indeed and that's one way to find out that guy would already give in if given the opportunity with any random woman he can't even call his gf. That right there is definitely not a quality, wholesome man. What those types will get in return is women that have no problems with casual, quick sex.
I agree. I don't understand why most men complain so much about women who sleep around but refuse to wait a few measly weeks for sex.
A few weeks, after that I will feel like im being played, unless she is one of the few genuine Christian women who did not drop her pants for ANYONE in the past early on and does not have anyone else on the side, nor has she ever had anyone else on the side in the past.
Yeah, this is dumb. You're assuming that since she probably did something in the past, she should do it again with you. That's like me assuming that a guy must've spent a whole lot of money on some girl he dated in the past, so I should dump him if he doesn't give me any expensive jewelry after a few dates.
And why is that guy assuming that a woman that doesn't sleep around and has integrity has to be of Christian religion? I fit into that category he is talking about but the only difference is I'm an atheist. I still wonder what does having a religion has anything to do with not sleeping around and only having sex in a meaningful relationship?
I've once gone to another site and it seems certain men were surprise I was a low-count atheist woman.
I agree. I don't understand why most men complain so much about women who sleep around but refuse to wait a few measly weeks for sex.
I don't complain about it, all I expect is that once she starts sleeping with me that im the only one she is sleeping with unless/until we broke up. I would expect there to be a few weeks to a month before either of us started sleeping with someone after the break up in case we realize it was a mistake to break up.
Over four years and counting. They can't even make up their mind if I'm their boyfriend or not. Never tell me they love me either. Oh well...that's why I'm "Comfortably Numb".
Go away......
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