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...with a woman who only believes in having sex inside committed, long term relationships?
I would be willing to wait indefinitely -- there is no set time limit needed at all, for me. (In fact as a guy, I myself want to wait until marriage or at the very earliest, until an engagement, before sharing intimacy with a woman.)
Over four years and counting. They can't even make up their mind if I'm their boyfriend or not. Never tell me they love me either. Oh well...that's why I'm "Comfortably Numb".
Go away......
Dude that's not a realationship, you've been friendzoned.
In my experience as an adult if sex hasn't happened in the first few dates, it's usually not going to happen at all. That tends to mean the chemistry isn't there for one or both parties.
In my experience as an adult if sex hasn't happened in the first few dates, it's usually not going to happen at all. That tends to mean the chemistry isn't there for one or both parties.
You couldn't stop posting in the other one she has and now you went and dug this one up and revived it?
You couldn't stop posting in the other one she has and now you went and dug this one up and revived it?
I have no idea who the "she" is you're referring to, and the time stamps indicate that this thread was dead for a whopping 57 minutes before I "revived" it. That's hardly a zombie thread. Thanks for randomly singling me out for off-topic personal attack, though.
Goodheathen brought the thread back, and it was only from 1/2, so hardly a Lazarus thread.
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Goodheathen brought the thread back, and it was only from 1/2, so hardly a Lazarus thread.
I see that and raise my apologies to nearnorth. However this was started as another thread and the topic in that was beaten to death. Same thread, same thread starter. Same first page.
A few weeks, after that I will feel like im being played, unless she is one of the few genuine Christian women who did not drop her pants for ANYONE in the past early on and does not have anyone else on the side, nor has she ever had anyone else on the side in the past.
That's pretty much me, but I don't bother dating people who don't have similar morals anymore. This means the men aren't just looking for casual hook-ups and prefer to take it slow physically also.
Can't say too many in the past have ever pressured me (as I was less discriminating in who I'd date then), but one did expect sex about 3 dates in, which to me is waaaay too fast emotionally, not even considering my spiritual beliefs.
I take a long time to open up emotionally too, and I need that aspect or the physical stuff leaves me cold; not even enjoyable. I'm also likely to feel a bond to someone after having been intimate, and I don't want to attach myself to just anyone.
I'm pretty skittish when it comes to dating too; I scare easily and quickly early on, and the tiniest bit of pressure will send me scampering away like a frightened doe-eyed deer in the woods.
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Dude that's not a realationship, you've been friendzoned.
