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A few weeks, after that I will feel like im being played, unless she is one of the few genuine Christian women who did not drop her pants for ANYONE in the past early on and does not have anyone else on the side, nor has she ever had anyone else on the side in the past.
Atheist here and definitely not into casual ''Ok let's do it already, it's been 15 days since we've just met'' sex. And yes I've only been with 1 man in my life who was my then bf. I'm not going for anyone. I'm seeking for my low-count in partners, serious and not into casual sex male counterpart only.
What does having a religion has to do with only looking for a meaningful relationship?
I am just curious. Those who say they won't commit to a relationship until there is sex, are you okay with the woman dating around and sleeping with other men aside from you while you are trying to figure out if you want to be be committed? Because that is the flip side of that coin.
I would assume a woman that is "dating" is sleeping around. And besides, what I don't know won't hurt me.
Women don't have to be Christians to feel that way about sex.
This.....
I don't quiet understand why some men believe that the conservative woman who aren't into casual sex have to be Christians all the time. I feel sex should only be in a relationship but I'm an atheist.
The only difference is I don't go for what bibles nor what churches have to say. It's rather my own feeling towards sex and intimacy.
Hey, thanks to those of you who answered my question. I really though men wouldn't be cool with a woman they are having sex with having sex with other men. Guess I was wrong. Maybe I am just adding my own personal bias to things because frankly, if I've gotten to the point with a man where I am intimate enough and trust him enough to have sex with him, I am not really thinking (or am interested in) other men at all.
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Hey, thanks to those of you who answered my question. I really though men wouldn't be cool with a woman they are having sex with having sex with other men. Guess I was wrong. Maybe I am just adding my own personal bias to things because frankly, if I've gotten to the point with a man where I am intimate enough and trust him enough to have sex with him, I am not really thinking (or am interested in) other men at all.
It would be fairly hypocritical of me to suggest otherwise. Good sex is needed for a good relationship, but it isn't the relationship itself.
I had a pretty good first date on Saturday (the Friday one wasn't so hot) and we'll likely have sex within a few dates, but it wouldn't have surprised me one little bit (and I wouldn't bat an eyelash) if she called a FB when she got home that night. I'm a bit more live and let live when it comes to sex compared to some more conservative types.
I am just curious. Those who say they won't commit to a relationship until there is sex, are you okay with the woman dating around and sleeping with other men aside from you while you are trying to figure out if you want to be be committed? Because that is the flip side of that coin.
No it's not. The flip side of that coin is your typical 'wait til the third date' type of relationship.
Besides, what you said doesn't really make sense...How is it that I'm trying to decide if i want to commit to a woman who is making me wait, but she is sleeping with other guys at the same time?
No it's not. The flip side of that coin is your typical 'wait til the third date' type of relationship.
Besides, what you said doesn't really make sense...How is it that I'm trying to decide if i want to commit to a woman who is making me wait, but she is sleeping with other guys at the same time?
I didn't mean the woman was making anyone wait. I meant that she was having sex with you... but also with other men because you aren't in a committed relationship yet. Her sleeping with other men is the flip side of being in a casual relationship with sex.
You know, I probably worded it poorly (in your defense). But other people understood what I meant.
Over the years, i learned that both trying to talk women into having sex and waiting until they were ready were both non-starters. The alternative is to find women for whom having sex is not a big deal.
Hey, thanks to those of you who answered my question. I really though men wouldn't be cool with a woman they are having sex with having sex with other men. Guess I was wrong. Maybe I am just adding my own personal bias to things because frankly, if I've gotten to the point with a man where I am intimate enough and trust him enough to have sex with him, I am not really thinking (or am interested in) other men at all.
You're not wrong, because I would NOT be cool with that.
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