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In all seriousness, women who can give you a little space but still stay romantic after a long time are the good ones. With both of my exes, our relationships kinda fizzled out and things got a bit boring
LMAO! I can honestly say that I am sooo happy that my wife follows this list to a "T". She keeps herself fit with yoga and ballroom/latin dancing, she's feminine, no tats or plastic surgeries, very intelligent (can quote Tolstoy, Plushkin, Dickens, etc.), wants sex a LOT, doesn't cuss and never ever plays on her phone (except for the occasional candy crush). I don't need her to cook, but every now and then she whips up something for everyone.
I reiterate my support of the 13 things on that list.
LMAO! I can honestly say that I am sooo happy that my wife follows this list to a "T". She keeps herself fit with yoga and ballroom/latin dancing, she's feminine, no tats or plastic surgeries, very intelligent (can quote Tolstoy, Plushkin, Dickens, etc.), wants sex a LOT, doesn't cuss and never ever plays on her phone (except for the occasional candy crush). I don't need her to cook, but every now and then she whips up something for everyone.
I reiterate my support of the 13 things on that list.
Only one girl I have been with hasn't had the sex drive of an old woman
I mean, here's the thing - even though this guy says that this applies to ALL men, everyone has different taste. I mean, a guy who has tattoos probably isn't going to be against tattoos. And lots of people have tattoos. In terms of make up - some guys really prefer no make up and some guys like the porn star look. I would say that the majority of men probably prefer the natural makeup/tasteful makeup look - but I think what men really want is just for a woman to be beautiful. If she can achieve that with minimal makeup - so much the better. In terms of a woman being submissive - well, I don't really know that many men that want a submissive wife. I'm sure there are some out there - but I don't really think that it's the majority. Everything is subjective. But he's basically saying - have a good body, be pretty, be smart, like sex but not with more than a few people, put your husband's happiness before your own, yada yada yada. I mean - those are things that most men want. I think the part where he really rubs people the wrong way is when he says that even if you think your boyfriend/husband/etc. loves you the way you are - you are wrong. Your boyfriend has settled because his perfect mate doesn't exist. I disagree with that and I think he puts that in there to kind of take people down a notch so he feels like he has the upper hand with this article. Our faults are part of who we are - and when you really love someone, you aren't settling - you love them for their amazing points AND their flaws. My husband isn't perfect but I didn't settle for him. I wouldn't change a thing about him. And I'm pretty sure he feels the same way about me.
Just my 2 cents.
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I sent the list to my boy friend and asked him what I could to do to be more like that.
He texted back ... I like you just the way your are.
( Besides I'd never ask you to do a complete 180 like that ).
I sent the list to my boy friend and asked him what I could to do to be more like that.
He texted back ... I like you just the way your are.
( Besides I'd never ask you to do a complete 180 like that ).
This is exactly the point that a lot of people here are still missing. You have a boyfriend, so unless he's expressed some sort of dissatisfaction with the relationship (which he obviously hasn't), then you can ignore the list altogether. It's not for you. It's for other people.
This is exactly the point that a lot of people here are still missing. You have a boyfriend, so unless he's expressed some sort of dissatisfaction with the relationship (which he obviously hasn't), then you can ignore the list altogether. It's not for you. It's for other people.
Actually - he doesn't seem to think that people in relationships are exempt. He basically tells them to stop deluding themselves that their partners really like them just they way they are.
But like I said previously, everyone has an opinion these days. Some will resonate with you, some will upset you, some you will just dismiss.
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