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Old 03-01-2015, 11:01 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I wouldn't expect sex on the first date... I wouldn't really expect anything right off the bat.... I will say that I'm a grown man and I ain't going to play this waiting till marriage nonsense... that's cute when you're 22 not 45......
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Old 03-01-2015, 11:42 AM
 
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Ive seen this discussed on so many forums. kinda surprised to not see a thread here in the first 3 pages or so.

Not that there is a cold hard fast timeline, and yes some situations are different...byt how long do you wait before you realize it aint gonna happen,a nd either enter friend zone or move on?

For me, it was 3 dates. If the girl wasn't willing to kiss me good night, I took that as an indicator and I was done after first date. But by the 3rd date, if hanky panky wasn't happening I was done.

What about you???
I'm willing to wait at least 10 dates.
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Old 03-01-2015, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I'm thinking anyone that can't wait has selfish issues.
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Old 03-01-2015, 11:47 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm willing to wait at least 10 dates.
Aren't you the one that doesn't have sex??? if so, of course you can wait 10 dates.... LOL......
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Old 03-01-2015, 11:53 AM
 
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Aren't you the one that doesn't have sex??? if so, of course you can wait 10 dates.... LOL......
Yeah, I've already waited 30+ years so 10 dates is nothing.
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Old 03-01-2015, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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I'm not a fast mover by any means, but I'd say after a 2-3 weeks of dating it should get there.

Depends on how into each other we are, I suppose. The girlfriend and I got to the second real date, but we spent nearly a month chatting casually at the breakfast joint before I manned up enough to ask her out. Whatever works
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Old 03-01-2015, 12:06 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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WHO doesn't enjoy sex?

Lots of people.

And lots of people aren't good at it.

Those aren't necessarily the same group.
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Old 03-01-2015, 12:51 PM
 
Location: MD
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Uh, I would like to at least get to know you before you shove your thing in me. Rather important to me that we connect really well first. I do not get the by date X, you must do this or that or GTFO. If you need it that bad, then go pay for it. Geez. If I'm seeking a "relationship", I'm looking forward to getting to know you. If it's a random hookup, then that is what it is.
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Old 03-01-2015, 08:44 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Lots of people.

And lots of people aren't good at it.

Those aren't necessarily the same group.
Boy are there people bad at it.
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Old 03-01-2015, 08:53 PM
 
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Usually during the first date.
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