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Well together or not, there's really no point in putting it off. Just tell him you're a few weeks pregnant and have decided to keep it. Then he can actually be making some plans, rather than you waiting until last min, or when you're already showing to spring it on him.
A new baby will take alot of planning, thus procrastinating isn't wise. You don't think he'll leave you, so no problem. Hiding it from him makes it seems like you got something big to hide, like that it's not his. I am sure that it is, but the longer you wait, the more suspicious he'll probably be with why you didn't tell him sooner.
So whatever you're pissed at him about, best to get over it, because this is more important than some grudge, unless he's abused you in some way, then it can't be that bad.
I guess your right. I mean it's nothing I'd break up with him over so I guess I can put that aside enough to deal him and deal with this.
I had told him that I thought I could be pregnant after all the unprotected sex, and he wasn't that freaked out. He was just like we will deal with it if it happens
I guess your right. I mean it's nothing I'd break up with him over so I guess I can put that aside enough to deal him and deal with this.
Any advice to tell him now or tommorow?
What time is it where you are? If it's late, I would say wait until tomorrow, maybe in the morning, or afternoon when you can both sit down and have a good few hours to talk. It will not be a quick discussion. He'll probably bring up abortion or adoption as options, so be ready for that and possible debates of him trying to persuade you.
So, if you want, you can send him a text, if it's late, letting him know you have something to discuss with him tomorrow. But again, if it is late and he'd be asleep or working late, then tomorrow is a better option imo. Everyone is awake, and you have plenty of time to discuss.
What time is it where you are? If it's late, I would say wait until tomorrow, maybe in the morning, or afternoon when you can both sit down and have a good few hours to talk. It will not be a quick discussion. He'll probably bring up abortion or adoption as options, so be ready for that and possible debates of him trying to persuade you.
So, if you want, you can send him a text, if it's late, letting him know you have something very serious to discuss with him tomorrow.
It's 1:30 in the morning so it's late but he's still up till 5
I would wait till he has to take you to the hospital. Buy hima Xbox he won't even notice you till then
All joking aside I would tell him asap.
Read your update post. That's good. He's probably still trying to absorb it. He will probably freak out a little bit. Hopefully he's a decent guy not a rabbit
I had told him that I thought I could be pregnant after all the unprotected sex, and he wasn't that freaked out. He was just like we will deal with it if it happens
Go back and read your other thread. You know, the one from this month... You and your FB wont last. WTF were you thinking?
Do your best to provide and nuture the baby you are about to have.
It's not easy raising a baby on your own. It's pretty damn expensive too.
Good luck.
Easy man. Maybe they will work out the rough edges. Give them a chance
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