when to tell him i'm pregnant? (guys, single, divorced, honest)

[Ace_TX]

um, no time like the present

why would a woman feel the need to withold/delay vital information like being pregnant

tell *him* as soon as you find out while hes sitting down (not driving though)

oh yeah, make sure that its *his*

when people hold back pregnancy info, i suspect its because of fear...

if you are in a solid relationship, "pregnancy" is suppose to be good news right?

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by crystalballmagic

Told him. He didn't leave.

So thank you for the positive comments! He also wants to keep the baby.

It's just like a fairytale! I'm sure you will all live happily ever after! Just goes to show you - being irresponsible always pays off!

[rego00123]

There is no harm in telling the guy when you find out.

What are you going to do if you have a complication early on that ends up with you losing he child? Just keep it to yourself?

Just take things as the come. You have nothing to fear from telling him "too early" you have everything to fear by telling him "too late"

[Kibbiekat]

It's too early to tell the general public. It is never too early to tell the father.

[RedZin]

Originally Posted by crystalballmagic

Told him. He didn't leave.

So thank you for the positive comments! He also wants to keep the baby.

You really lived up to your name.

[Nema98]

You must tell as soon as possible, so you know where he stands, if he will be a father or not, and to put that with your own ideas and goals as to what direction you want to take with the baby.

ASAP is the best policy.

[crystalballmagic]

Originally Posted by Nema98

You must tell as soon as possible, so you know where he stands, if he will be a father or not, and to put that with your own ideas and goals as to what direction you want to take with the baby.

ASAP is the best policy.

Thanks. He knows so it's all good and I had nothing to be afraid of because he is on the same page

[Chowhound]

I think the sooner you tell him the better.

There must be something wrong with me. I read stories about someone getting pregnant and I instantly go to a "oh damn" place in my mind instead of a happy place, like congrats and all......

[crystalballmagic]

Originally Posted by rego00123

There is no harm in telling the guy when you find out.

What are you going to do if you have a complication early on that ends up with you losing he child? Just keep it to yourself?

Just take things as the come. You have nothing to fear from telling him "too early" you have everything to fear by telling him "too late"

This. Kinda was afraid to tell him cause I'm afraid of having a miscarriage. I had been told before I couldn't ever get pregnant. So I'm scared I'll never make it to 12 weeks.

[stormynh]

Originally Posted by crystalballmagic

I'm just ...not sure if it's too early. Everybody seems to be telling me it's too "early"

To early to trap him into marrying you. Best to wait until abortion is not an option.