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I guess I should just get it over with. I'm a shy person so I'm just not sure how to tell him exactly.
You hesitate to tell him because you're a shy person? Come on, this isn't a case where you have piles or anything like that, you're pregnant with his baby. The way you handle the whole process just sounds shady.
You hesitate to tell him because you're a shy person? Come on, this isn't a case where you have piles or anything like that, you're pregnant with his baby. The way you handle the whole process just sounds shady.
Let me break it down for you:
1) Has FWB. Knows he doesn't want a relationship, but she likes him so she has unprotected sex with him hoping he'll someday like her as more than a FWB.
2) Comes on here and tells us all she might be pregnant. Refuses to consider abortion (totally her right). This happens almost immediately after she's here posting about wanting this FWB situation to be more. Sounds shady already, no?
3) She's gone from this section for a couple weeks. Comes back and is 6 weeks pregnant. Only now, she and FWB are "more" (whatever that means is anyone's guess). And she's shy so she's afraid to tell him only she's sure he won't leave.
Her indicator that all will be well is that he said they'd "deal with it" if she got pregnant.
If that's not code for "get you to the clinic" I dunno what is.
My prediction is that she tells him and he offers to pay for the abortion and she is wondering if she should just keep it to herself and hope he gets attached enough to her that when she DOES tell him, he'll want to stay with her and play house.
But... this is just an educated guess.
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1) Has FWB. Knows he doesn't want a relationship, but she likes him so she has unprotected sex with him hoping he'll someday like her as more than a FWB.
2) Comes on here and tells us all she might be pregnant. Refuses to consider abortion (totally her right). This happens almost immediately after she's here posting about wanting this FWB situation to be more. Sounds shady already, no?
3) She's gone from this section for a couple weeks. Comes back and is 6 weeks pregnant. Only now, she and FWB are "more" (whatever that means is anyone's guess). And she's shy so she's afraid to tell him only she's sure he won't leave.
Her indicator that all will be well is that he said they'd "deal with it" if she got pregnant.
If that's not code for "get you to the clinic" I dunno what is.
My prediction is that she tells him and he offers to pay for the abortion and she is wondering if she should just keep it to herself and hope he gets attached enough to her that when she DOES tell him, he'll want to stay with her and play house.
So thank you for the positive comments! He also wants to keep the baby.
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