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Well together or not, there's really no point in putting it off. Just tell him you're a few weeks pregnant and have decided to keep it. Then he can actually be making some plans, rather than you waiting until last min, or when you're already showing to spring it on him.
A new baby will take alot of planning, thus procrastinating isn't wise. You don't think he'll leave you, so no problem. Hiding it from him makes it seems like you got something big to hide, like that it's not his. I am sure that it is, but the longer you wait, the more suspicious he'll probably be with why you didn't tell him sooner.
So whatever you're pissed at him about, best to get over it, because this is more important than some grudge, unless he's abused you in some way, then it can't be that bad.
Last edited by HappyRain; 03-28-2015 at 10:19 PM..
You had a FWB that you've developed feelings for and ( in your own words) didn't want to lose so you knowingly and willingly had unprotected sex with same, and suddenly "conveniently" find yourself to be with child. Well played! The good news is that you deserve one an other. (He's just as culpable as you are). The bad news is that if you go through with the pregnancy an innocent child will be the one who suffers when this train wrecks.
One can only hope that he mans up and takes responsility. Seems highly unlikely though from a guy who had no regard for the possibility of a pregnancy with someone he was just ( although agreed upon) screwing.
Disgusting!
I'm 6 weeks pregnant, and I'm not sure when to tell him.
Some say sooner the better, then some people tell me don't say anything to 12 weeks or later.
Any opinions?
I feel like I'm hiding it from him ...but again I don't feel like I'm ready to tell him just yet, like I feel like I waiting for another 2 or 3 weeks.
So what happened to the 10+ forms of contraceptive available to you...
Edit: Please disregard this comment, I just realised you used the pregnancy to trap the fwb. He is a fool for not protecting himself and you are dishonorable for bringing a kid into the world to trap a guy. Stuff like this makes me so glad I will never be in that position.
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Curiouser and curiouser..
