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I'm not asking out a woman more than a couple of times if I don't think she wants me.
The idea that she might be open to satisfy me is nauseating.
Why would any half decent dude be ok with that when there are lots of sensual cute women out there that would really want you?
I think Timerberline, we're about the same age, 40 something and I think as a man as you get older you have differing senses of what you want in terms of a woman...
I remember being a 22 yr old guy and the only requirements were two **** a hole and a heartbeat and writing that make me uncomfortable.. as is sounds crappy...
As a 45 yr old man, I have a whole differing sense of what I want in a woman, I want the package, I want a smart woman, a sexy woman, a confident woman...
I don't want a woman to service me as a form of duty... and I'm not even mad at women that think that way.. I just know what I want.
That is one of the benefits of becoming an old man.... you have a better sense of what is and what isn't and doing me a favor isn't.......
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I think Timerberline, we're about the same age, 40 something and I think as a man as you get older you have differing senses of what you want in terms of a woman...
I remember being a 22 yr old guy and the only requirements were two **** a hole and a heartbeat and writing that make me uncomfortable.. as is sounds crappy...
As a 45 yr old man, I have a whole differing sense of what I want in a woman, I want the package, I want a smart woman, a sexy woman, a confident woman...
I don't want a woman to service me as a form of duty... and I'm not even mad at women that think that way.. I just know what I want.
That is one of the benefits of becoming an old man.... you have a better sense of what is and what isn't and doing me a favor isn't.......
I think it is true I want more, but in my 20s I still wanted smart and cool.
I want a lot more at 43. I also have more to offer.
Thankfully there is no shortage of adult women with the suite to offer, and yes, want to bang me.
What there is lacking is those that want a commitment!
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Well, that's not true. I'd love to meet a man who I found attractive and wanted to have sex with.
But you said you've never met someone you wanted to have sex with, in 15 or so years of being dating age!
And I notice how you skip the mental and emotional part... they aren't separate! They all come together. A mental, emotional, and physical connection. They aren't separate components. They come together.
But you said you've never met someone you wanted to have sex with, in 15 or so years of being dating age!
And I notice how you skip the mental and emotional part... they aren't separate! They all come together. A mental, emotional, and physical connection. They aren't separate components. They come together.
Well, we've already established that I haven't experienced a "real" romantic attraction to anyone thus far, so is it that surprising to you that I haven't had sex with any of the guys I've met via OLD?
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Well, we've already established that I haven't experienced a "real" romantic attraction to anyone thus far, so is it that surprising to you that I haven't had sex with any of the guys I've met via OLD?
Kinda. But I wasn't referring to just OLD.
But whatever
I'm done. Hope you get therapy and figure it out.
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This quote is spot on and also ties in with a comment Timberline made in another thread about women shopping for husbands.
