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Old 11-11-2019, 07:29 AM
 
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I remember my (ex)husband saying he’d trade me in for 2 20’s when I turned 40. I wasn’t worried. The 2 20s didn’t equal one loyal me, who finished her job as a parent, at least and is now free to look for her own 20s 30s and 40s without having to answer to anyone.

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Old 11-11-2019, 08:04 AM
 
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I wouldn’t be against it. I’m drawn to older woman but +15 is probably about my limit.
 
Old 02-15-2020, 05:06 PM
 
Location: Kocaeli, Turkey
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Why would a 20 year old date a 60 year old in the first place?
 
Old 02-15-2020, 07:12 PM
 
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Money, shelter, chick can’t get pregnant
 
Old 02-15-2020, 11:48 PM
 
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The man is in the closet. Or he's a gold digger.

Either way, this ain't legit.
 
Old 02-16-2020, 07:12 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Someone sees dollar signs. It goes both ways. During vacation in Florida I saw lots of retired men with younger women. Goes both ways folks.
 
Old 02-16-2020, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Columbia SC
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I am 77 and my girlfriend is 27 (single Mom of two boys). We know it is not going anywhere and it will eventually end but we are enjoying it as it goes along. We get quite a few stares when we go out. We disagree on why the stares but as I am white and old, and she is black and young, we get a lot of them.

Some might say she is a gold digger, but I have no gold to dig. She says I respect her and treat her well which she says few guys her age do. She says I feel secure and comfortable when with you and you take me to different places. She says you set a good example for my boys. We tease about getting married but we both know, no way in hell would we do it.

We see each other about once a week or 3 times in 2 weeks. She sleeps over every few weeks. I hope Mr Right comes along for her but until he does, I will enjoy it. Been years since I have had "feminine products" under bathroom my sink.........LOL
 
Old 02-16-2020, 07:39 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Why would a 20 year old date a 60 year old in the first place?
There are 20-something guys out there, who feel they dont fit in with the crowd their age. They feel they're more mature than the extended-adolescence scene many 20-somethings are a part of. IMO the sad part of it is, that there are 20-somethng women who feel the same way; have their act together, are interesting, adventurous and smart, and are looking for guys like the ones who think all 20-somethings are too immature.

I guess it's one of those needle-in-a-haystack things, so some of those guys give up, and look for older women.
 
Old 02-16-2020, 07:42 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I am 77 and my girlfriend is 27 (single Mom of two boys). We know it is not going anywhere and it will eventually end but we are enjoying it as it goes along. We get quite a few stares when we go out. We disagree on why the stares but as I am white and old, and she is black and young, we get a lot of them.

Some might say she is a gold digger, but I have no gold to dig. She says I respect her and treat her well which she says few guys her age do. She says I feel secure and comfortable when with you and you take me to different places. She says you set a good example for my boys. We tease about getting married but we both know, no way in hell would we do it.

We see each other about once a week or 3 times in 2 weeks. She sleeps over every few weeks. I hope Mr Right comes along for her but until he does, I will enjoy it. Been years since I have had "feminine products" under bathroom my sink.........LOL
See, she needs to hang out with the college crowd, or with guys in the trades, who are solid and are building themselves a decent life. They're out there. But...whatever.
 
Old 02-16-2020, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Born + raised SF Bay; Tyler, TX now WNY
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I react to it as two adults entering into a contract for reasons which are their own. Doesn’t affect me and isn’t my business. I honestly could not care less.
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