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What's shallow about being honest about the big role attractiveness plays? It does play a big role whether we like it or not, especially when one meets someone else for the first time.
because societal expectations of attractiveness are bull **** and those lamenting being unlovable because of their physical attributes or others not being loved because they are ugly are buying into the bS
Why would any individual assume their taste is different from the masses' taste, a word which implies something negative by the way? There are studies suggesting that there is a broad agreement in society regarding who is attractive and who is not.
It does indeed matter less when one gets to know people without having a choice, for instance colleagues. One might end up with someone one would not even have considered, say, in a bar or wherever people meet voluntarily.
I have literally never read a thread full of such shallow, cynical people.
Receding hair lines, only attractive people have luck in love, just be hot and rich and you'll find love, woman age badly, no one meets my standards, I only want someone like me, etc.
Maybe it's thinking like this that keeps y'all miserable and single.
100% agree. Me; baldy-locks, over-weight, face that sends people screaming into the night, Hot? (uh, no), Rich? (I WISH) married to a hottie who has aged right along with me (still think she's a hottie!). We both set standards years ago; no cheating ever with anything or anyone, she has a say in everything, NO NAGGING, TV is muted or off when we are talking, neither of us leaves the table (or bedroom) hungry.
I would be totally appalled if my bride was like me!
I have literally never read a thread full of such shallow, cynical people.
Receding hair lines, only attractive people have luck in love, just be hot and rich and you'll find love, woman age badly, no one meets my standards, I only want someone like me, etc.
Maybe it's thinking like this that keeps y'all miserable and single.
Look at the Positive side of that. It saves a lot of the best women for the Men who appreciate them.
I have literally never read a thread full of such shallow, cynical people.
Receding hair lines, only attractive people have luck in love, just be hot and rich and you'll find love, woman age badly, no one meets my standards, I only want someone like me, etc.
Maybe it's thinking like this that keeps y'all miserable and single.
No one is guaranteed love or a mate in life. If it happens great, if not that's life. This isn't cynicism its pragmatism. Which is what I see in most of these responses.
Got me some shiny new "choppers" a few months back, all the fake teeth are a white as Chiclets! Women find them irresistible!
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Exactly!
