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Old 10-18-2015, 10:05 AM
 
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If a man is constantly jerking it to porn he's not going to have an appetite for real women. Part of the drive to date is the sexual aspect of dating.
That's just the truth. I know I've dated guys who were practically porn addicts before they started dating me. Then they start getting real sex and they chill out with the porn.

Surely 2d images of porn can never compete with a real woman who is pleasant to be around, sexually attractive, intelligent and fun.

 
Old 10-18-2015, 10:15 AM
 
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Surely 2d images of porn can never compete with a real woman who is pleasant to be around, sexually attractive, intelligent and fun.
Of course not, but a lot of men will find it a lot easier to watch porn than they will finding and attracting the above.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 10:32 AM
 
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Why all the porn hate? I've gotten some of my best ideas from porn.

Also, having married a very religious guy who self diagnosed as addicted to porn but was a virgin when we married, thank goodness he watched porn and knew where to put things when the wedding night came.
Oh my dear God. That someone actually would think this, much less type it on a forum is just...I have no words.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 10:43 AM
 
Location: TN
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Oh my dear God. That someone actually would think this, much less type it on a forum is just...I have no words.
You're going to have to elaborate on your indignation a bit more. I am unclear as to the intent of your roll eyes.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 10:50 AM
 
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You're going to have to elaborate on your indignation a bit more. I am unclear as to the intent of your roll eyes.
Just ignore her. She usually has nothing of value to contribute here except for quips and insults.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 11:00 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Personally, I really like the convenience and availability of porn. Its existence likely prevented me from getting STDs (going home to watch porn instead of going off with a questionable girl).

It's actually allowing me to get to know women as people, since I could just pleasure myself regularly and don't need to chase women for that.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 11:08 AM
 
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Reddit? You're using REDDIT for a citation to imply some huge social phenomenon?

Reddit is to misogyny what Tumblr is to misandry. Reddit is about one step above 4chan, and that's not a very big step.



Next time, just cite MGTOW. It would be more sincere.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 11:15 AM
 
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Reddit? You're using REDDIT for a citation to imply some huge social phenomenon?

Reddit is to misogyny what Tumblr is to misandry. Reddit is about one step above 4chan, and that's not a very big step.



Next time, just cite MGTOW. It would be more sincere.
Ha! There are some interesting subsets of people out there.

I don't think much of MGTOW. I don't think it is a good thing. Certainly, there are some negative aspects of dating/relationships out there, but the sexes should be working towards getting together, not living apart. Togetherness is good. More can come out of togetherness than separateness.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 11:18 AM
 
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I'm not afraid of rejection. I just straight up don't care to approach women right now. I love my Independence.
And good on ya. That is how is should be--for both sexes.

Just had this discussion while out with friends last night. One of my friends said she feels it's "wrong" not to want a relationship. We were boozing, and I'm sure she meant "unnatural" or "off-kilter," but when I gave my reasons, she seemed to understand what I was saying. There are times in one's life when it takes a low priority--and that's okay.
 
Old 10-18-2015, 11:24 AM
 
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Instead of whining about being not approached....people could easily solve the issue by approaching.

Pride and fear can be terrible things.
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