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"Yes!!! Porn has ruined men on so many levels, dont get me started on that one!! I am part of the last generation that knew life pre and post internet porn and its not pretty. If i could say one thing to younger men to improve the quality of their lives it would be to never watch internet porn again. Porn has killed men socially and sexually, they don't approach real women anymore, they dont get turned on by real women, they are terrible at sex, they are wasting their sexuality in basements by themselves watching homo erotic images day in and day out. Its the saddest thing. Straight porn has nothing to do with feminine sexuality, its all male centric. Men should be learning about sex with real women, not online. Men used to be romantic, intense, sexual and masculine, not anymore. Now when a man sees a hot woman in real life he just stares at her longingly, does nothing, then just goes home and jerks to porn. Such a waste. Dont get me wrong, women are also ****ed up now to in their own way and its bad on both sides but im talking about porn. If i meet anyone again i hope he doesnt watch porn and i hope more and more men wake up and join the nofap or noporn movements. Sorry, bit of a rant there."
"Men are feminized now though, those days are done.
women are generally attracted to strong masculine men, especially beautiful feminine women, thats how nature made it.
20 years ago this wasnt even a debate, men just naturally enjoyed chasing women, now they want to be passive and sit back while the women chase them
I think the whole problem with men now is that they care too much how they will come off, if she will judge or reject him, but strong men shouldnt give a **** either way, strong men need strong egos that dont give a **** what a woman thinks so they just go for what they want. Thats what women find sexy. Men are so afraid of everything now. It never used to be like that."
Imo Men approaching has little to do with women finding it attractive and more to do with them wanting to be lazy and not risk rejection. Women want to be able to find what they want with as little risk as possible
Then there are men, such as myself, that do not approach women, not because we are afraid, but we know doing so will never work out positively. Why bother with something that's a guaranteed fail.
Then there are men, such as myself, that do not approach women, not because we are afraid, but we know doing so will never work out positively. Why bother with something that's a guaranteed fail.
I'm not afraid of rejection. I just straight up don't care to approach women right now. I love my Independence.
The first poster is either some incredibly frustrated and/or insecure women that has been deprived from attention from the opposite sex, or is a stooge for this silly "No Fap" movement. Giving them the benefit of the doubt, and hence assuming it is indeed the former, then some serious reflection and retrospection is in order. If as a man you are continuously getting rejected by women or as a woman you are failing to get attention from the opposite sex, then I think it is safe to say the problem is with you rather than an entire gender.
Porn is an incredibly helpful tool for many of us who simply cannot get the release through more "conventional" means so to speak, for whatever reason. There is also no evidence and thus no reason to think men, collectively, are any different today than they were than say in the 1980s.
Lastly, I remain skeptical she doesn't get any attention at all. Rather, what I believe is going on is that she is not getting attention or approached by the men that she wants her to approach. Her problem is one of a significant mismatch between relative appeal and one's standards, which seems to be rather common these days. I'm certain that she does indeed get approached, just not by the types of men she believes she is entitled to.
Most Women don't count approaches unless they're from the top 20%, maybe 30%, of men.
If a man is constantly jerking it to porn he's not going to have an appetite for real women. Part of the drive to date is the sexual aspect of dating.
That's just the truth. I know I've dated guys who were practically porn addicts before they started dating me. Then they start getting real sex and they chill out with the porn.
In regards to the porn thing, I think many young dudes look at it like this.
I could either
A. Get dressed up go out to the club with my boys. Approach many girls only to get turned down dozens of times, maybe get one to pretend to be interested only to get free drinks and ultimately get nowhere
It's kinda hard to speak any language with your mouth full
I can see it now: "CD Moderators regret to announce that JustJulia and April R have been banned for corrupting iknowftbll. Iknowftbll has been placed in a temporary probationary period until we are assured he will no longer fill threads with erotica themed posts inspired by the two banned female posters. We are disappointed these two posters chose to bait a bright and innocent mind, and sad to have had to remove them from our community. It is our hope that iknowftbll can be salvaged and restored to his place as one of the most respected, intelligent, endearing, good looking, fun to converse with, and amazing members of this community. Finally we hope everyone has learned from this experience. We at CD appreciate our members but cannot allow our threads to be filled with erotic themed messages. Thank you, everyone, for your cooperation and understanding."
The first poster is either some incredibly frustrated and/or insecure women that has been deprived from attention from the opposite sex, or is a stooge for this silly "No Fap" movement. Giving them the benefit of the doubt, and hence assuming it is indeed the former, then some serious reflection and retrospection is in order. If as a man you are continuously getting rejected by women or as a woman you are failing to get attention from the opposite sex, then I think it is safe to say the problem is with you rather than an entire gender.
Porn is an incredibly helpful tool for many of us who simply cannot get the release through more "conventional" means so to speak, for whatever reason. There is also no evidence and thus no reason to think men, collectively, are any different today than they were than say in the 1980s.
Lastly, I remain skeptical she doesn't get any attention at all. Rather, what I believe is going on is that she is not getting attention or approached by the men that she wants her to approach. Her problem is one of a significant mismatch between relative appeal and one's standards, which seems to be rather common these days. I'm certain that she does indeed get approached, just not by the types of men she believes she is entitled to.
Exactly, this is what it really comes down to. I don't know why people can't see it.
I can see it now: "CD Moderators regret to announce that JustJulia and April R have been banned for corrupting iknowftbll. Iknowftbll has been placed in a temporary probationary period until we are assured he will no longer fill threads with erotica themed posts inspired by the two banned female posters. We are disappointed these two posters chose to bait a bright and innocent mind, and sad to have had to remove them from our community. It is our hope that iknowftbll can be salvaged and restored to his place as one of the most respected, intelligent, endearing, good looking, fun to converse with, and amazing members of this community. Finally we hope everyone has learned from this experience. We at CD appreciate our members but cannot allow our threads to be filled with erotic themed messages. Thank you, everyone, for your cooperation and understanding."
Hahahaha. ........hahaha. .........stop I can't breathe. .....Hahahahaha. .........Hahahahaha
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