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I can't say I disagree with it, heck I've been a victim in some ways also, though I have changed my ways. Porn should be viewed moderately and never to the level of taking over your social life.
But I wonder if sometimes the way women are today makes some guys go in that direction, say being rejected even after taking charge?
Oh God, now I sound like those bitter, male virgins. But she is right in many ways.
"Yes!!! Porn has ruined men on so many levels, dont get me started on that one!! I am part of the last generation that knew life pre and post internet porn and its not pretty. If i could say one thing to younger men to improve the quality of their lives it would be to never watch internet porn again. Porn has killed men socially and sexually, they don't approach real women anymore, they dont get turned on by real women, they are terrible at sex, they are wasting their sexuality in basements by themselves watching homo erotic images day in and day out. Its the saddest thing. Straight porn has nothing to do with feminine sexuality, its all male centric. Men should be learning about sex with real women, not online. Men used to be romantic, intense, sexual and masculine, not anymore. Now when a man sees a hot woman in real life he just stares at her longingly, does nothing, then just goes home and jerks to porn. Such a waste. Dont get me wrong, women are also ****ed up now to in their own way and its bad on both sides but im talking about porn. If i meet anyone again i hope he doesnt watch porn and i hope more and more men wake up and join the nofap or noporn movements. Sorry, bit of a rant there."
"Men are feminized now though, those days are done.
women are generally attracted to strong masculine men, especially beautiful feminine women, thats how nature made it.
20 years ago this wasnt even a debate, men just naturally enjoyed chasing women, now they want to be passive and sit back while the women chase them
I think the whole problem with men now is that they care too much how they will come off, if she will judge or reject him, but strong men shouldnt give a **** either way, strong men need strong egos that dont give a **** what a woman thinks so they just go for what they want. Thats what women find sexy. Men are so afraid of everything now. It never used to be like that."
Imo Men approaching has little to do with women finding it attractive and more to do with them wanting to be lazy and not risk rejection. Women want to be able to find what they want with as little risk as possible
"Men are feminized now though, those days are done.
women are generally attracted to strong masculine men, especially beautiful feminine women, thats how nature made it.
20 years ago this wasnt even a debate, men just naturally enjoyed chasing women, now they want to be passive and sit back while the women chase them.
I think the whole problem with men now is that they care too much how they will come off, if she will judge or reject him, but strong men shouldnt give a **** either way, strong men need strong egos that dont give a **** what a woman thinks so they just go for what they want. Thats what women find sexy. Men are so afraid of everything now. It never used to be like that."
Imo Men approaching has little to do with women finding it attractive and more to do with them wanting to be lazy and not risk rejection. Women want to be able to find what they want with as little risk as possible
That's my problem. Why bait the hook when the fish, they jump in the boat? Women today are so aggressive! It didn't use to be that way. Use to be I could go to a bar, eye a woman across the room, then go over and casually talk her up. These days I have to face-palm several broads before I even order a beer
LOL, probably about the only thing you learned from CD.. LOL, the place doesn't really accurately represent real life....
At least I hope it doesn't.
Actually the house and garden forums are informative and they are what attracted me to C-D in the first place. The rest of it though, lives up your words, entertainment value at best.
Actually the house and garden forums are informative and they are what attracted me to C-D in the first place. The rest of it though, lives up your words, entertainment value at best.
True, some of the other forums are actually helpful, I find myself in the food and music forums and they can be informative, much less in fighting, this forum is only second to the POC forum in nastiness levels....
I'll go to the POC forum and there are a couple of posters, I won't name names, but this one guy is the most sarcastic vicious person and can shred you to pieces and do it in a way that he doesn't get dinged by mods, I almost admire him for that, but he's just dripping with everything negative and ugly about the world.
I ventured in POC completely by accident, after a thread got moved there. It was quite a frightening experience. Someone actually put me in tears over something that was meant to be funny, then DM'd me a bunch of nastygrams when I didn't take the bait. I didn't log back on to CD for like a month after that.
Personally, and I'm gonna be brutally honest. I don't care what any woman thinks of me. If I want to watch porn, I'll do that. I don't really approach women like I did a few months ago because I don't really care too. Any disagreement towards this post is irrelevant.
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