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"Yes!!! Porn has ruined men on so many levels, dont get me started on that one!! I am part of the last generation that knew life pre and post internet porn and its not pretty. If i could say one thing to younger men to improve the quality of their lives it would be to never watch internet porn again. Porn has killed men socially and sexually, they don't approach real women anymore, they dont get turned on by real women, they are terrible at sex, they are wasting their sexuality in basements by themselves watching homo erotic images day in and day out. Its the saddest thing. Straight porn has nothing to do with feminine sexuality, its all male centric. Men should be learning about sex with real women, not online. Men used to be romantic, intense, sexual and masculine, not anymore. Now when a man sees a hot woman in real life he just stares at her longingly, does nothing, then just goes home and jerks to porn. Such a waste. Dont get me wrong, women are also ****ed up now to in their own way and its bad on both sides but im talking about porn. If i meet anyone again i hope he doesnt watch porn and i hope more and more men wake up and join the nofap or noporn movements. Sorry, bit of a rant there."
"Men are feminized now though, those days are done.
women are generally attracted to strong masculine men, especially beautiful feminine women, thats how nature made it.
20 years ago this wasnt even a debate, men just naturally enjoyed chasing women, now they want to be passive and sit back while the women chase them
I think the whole problem with men now is that they care too much how they will come off, if she will judge or reject him, but strong men shouldnt give a **** either way, strong men need strong egos that dont give a **** what a woman thinks so they just go for what they want. Thats what women find sexy. Men are so afraid of everything now. It never used to be like that."
Imo Men approaching has little to do with women finding it attractive and more to do with them wanting to be lazy and not risk rejection. Women want to be able to find what they want with as little risk as possible
I agree with everything except your last paragraph. I am not the slightest bit risk-avoidant, but I like to feel like lamb alone with the big, bad wolf and I can't feel that if I have to be the wolf.
She's an attractive woman. But what puts me off is her bad attitude and resentment towards men. If you act like you hate men of course men aren't gonna talk to you. Looks only get you so far.
I don't have any morality issues around porn. I really don't, but I feel that there some measure of truth in the first paragraph.
I think more and more men are playing too much xbox and too much with themselves, it's easier, watch a vid, crank away and you don't have to worry about another person's needs, blah blah blah, I see that sentiment here on CD frequently not spelled out so cut and dry, but between the lines.
As to being too feminized... not sure about that feminized part, but there's also some measure of truth there, young people, men in particular, are blasted with mixed messages about how to conduct themselves and I don't think fathers are really dealing with some of these issues, if the fathers are even there to begin with.
I think more and more men are playing too much xbox and too much with themselves, it's easier, watch a vid, crank away and you don't have to worry about another person's needs, blah blah blah, I see that sentiment here on CD frequently not spelled out so cut and dry, but between the lines.
Surely a plastic box with a controller and moving images can't compete with an attractive woman.
I think more and more men are playing too much xbox and too much with themselves, it's easier, watch a vid, crank away and you don't have to worry about another person's needs, blah blah blah, I see that sentiment here on CD frequently not spelled out so cut and dry, but between the lines.
Yeah, I've recently learned that I need to involve the boobs more during sex. I'm sure I will be able to adapt my practices.
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