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Old 12-05-2015, 10:42 AM
 
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It was just hard. Even if I thought things were great, any time I brought up moving in together, marriage, anything about future, he got mad and dumped me then ignored me for days. How can I convey that he won't have to worry about that anymore?
Time for the 2 of you to take a long break from this mess so both of you can decide exactly what you want and for you to work on yourself.

And that means no contact by phone, texting, Facebook and so on.
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Old 12-06-2015, 07:44 AM
 
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But he is so insistent that he's "done." Even as he admits that he will regret dumping me
And will never find anyone who makes him happier. I really think it's an extreme fear of commitment so I'm trying to figure out how to slowly get him back
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Old 12-06-2015, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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But he is so insistent that he's "done." Even as he admits that he will regret dumping me "But I want to break up with you anyway"
And will never find anyone who makes him happier. "But I want to break up with you anyway. I really think it's an extreme fear of commitment so I'm trying to figure out how to slowly get him back
Or he is saying it to be nice. Or he is already heading off your arguments to get him back.
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Old 12-06-2015, 09:32 AM
 
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Or he is saying it to be nice. Or he is already heading off your arguments to get him back.
Which was previously explained to her.
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Old 12-06-2015, 09:38 AM
 
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You will never get him back.
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Old 12-06-2015, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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But he is so insistent that he's "done."
Then he's done. It's over.
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Old 12-06-2015, 10:02 AM
 
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I realize your first goal in life is to extend this thread as long as you can, but its getting monotonous. Just re-read it.
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Old 12-06-2015, 10:03 AM
 
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You don't know him. He's broken up with me SO many times before. Basically every single time I brought up the future. And I'd always get him back by trying hard enough
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Old 12-06-2015, 10:04 AM
 
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You don't know him. He's broken up with me SO many times before. Basically every single time I brought up the future. And I'd always get him back by trying hard enough
Nice.
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Old 12-06-2015, 10:05 AM
 
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You don't know him. He's broken up with me SO many times before. Basically every single time I brought up the future. And I'd always get him back by trying hard enough
Try sex, tell him it's no strings attached.
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