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Old 11-29-2015, 08:51 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Yes, because if you love someone and want them back, you definitely have to be either trolling or "dangerous."
After 18 pages and nothing to add, you keep posting the same thing is definitely trolling.
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Old 11-29-2015, 11:45 AM
 
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There's nothing to add because I still haven't figured out how to get my dream guy back.
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Old 11-29-2015, 12:06 PM
 
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There's nothing to add because I still haven't figured out how to get my dream guy back.
Because it is NOT going to happen. End of discussion. Sorry that reality is beyond your grasp.

As soon as you accept the fact that he is gone for good maybe, just maybe, you can move on.
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Old 11-29-2015, 12:15 PM
 
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Why does he gave to be gone for good? He was a gene really cold person but he really did care for me I think!! So I just need to awaken a feeling that's already existed
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Old 11-29-2015, 12:28 PM
 
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Why does he gave to be gone for good? He was a gene really cold person but he really did care for me I think!! So I just need to awaken a feeling that's already existed
Because that is his prerogative. While he may have once cared for you, that changed.

He doesn't care, you can't change the fact that he no longer cares. There is no waking or changing that fact.

The only thing in tiny little terms that you can do, is manage your own actions.
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Old 11-29-2015, 12:37 PM
 
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^ Yep. He is allowed to decide whom he wants to be with, or not be with. He doesn't even need a reason. Nobody does. If we're not feeling it, we're not feeling it. It is his prerogative to be disentangled from this relationship. A reason and an exit interview are not required. End thread.
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:07 PM
 
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He keeps saying he's sure he's going to regret this and doesn't think he'll ever find someone nether, but he doesn't live in a utopian world.
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:10 PM
 
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He keeps saying he's sure he's going to regret this and doesn't think he'll ever find someone nether, but he doesn't live in a utopian world.
It was spelled out for you earlier. He is staying that to shut you up. He is tired of hearing from you and is too polite to say so. Really, the words and actions don't line up.
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:12 PM
 
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He keeps saying he's sure he's going to regret this and doesn't think he'll ever find someone nether, but he doesn't live in a utopian world.
He said no.

He said no to you.

It is done.

You keep pushing him by demanding reasons and he keeps coming up with baloney off the top of his head, probably from movies he's seen, such as the quote above, but that's because you...won't...leave...him...alone. He is trying to give you what you want so you will GO AWAY.

You are bullying him and being intrusive.

NO MEANS NO. Leave him ALONE now. He is ALLOWED to say no. He is NOT REQUIRED to give you reasons that you eventually decide you can accept. His own reasons, whether they're "good" or "bad," whether they make sense to you, I or the man in the moon, don't matter, they are HIS reasons and he is done. STOP BULLYING THIS MAN AND STOP PUSHING HIM. NO MEANS NO.
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:16 PM
 
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He seems resentful, saying "well in 6 months you'll move for that new job and have all the guys falling all over you "
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