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Well I'd just love to know why my simple conversation about moving in together after a year resulted in him blowing up like that. This is what I mean, he dumps me every time there's commitment or emotion expressed by
Me
Obviously he didn't want you to ask about moving in.
If you want to move in, just do it!!! Wait until he isn't home and move your stuff in. He'll really enjoy that! He sounds like the type who loves surprises.
Obviously he didn't want you to ask about moving in.
If you want to move in, just do it!!! Wait until he isn't home and move your stuff in. He'll really enjoy that! He sounds like the type who loves surprises.
I wouldn't do that. He could call police for trespassing. You might end up in jail. See a therapist please.
I wouldn't do that. He could call police for trespassing. You might end up in jail. See a therapist please.
If a girl did that to me I would throw her out of my window with her stuff. Women are sly though they start "nesting". They leave a thing here or there at my place and before I know it shes got my whole dresser filled with her crap!
If a girl did that to me I would throw her out of my window with her stuff. Women are sly though they start "nesting". They leave a thing here or there at my place and before I know it shes got my whole dresser filled with her crap!
I think MissClutterbuck was kidding...and also being facetious (sorry, not to speak for you, MissClutterbuck)...I mean whether this person is for real or not (I'm banking on "not" and somebody's having fun), we have all attempted to give GOOD advice she didn't listen to...so now it's on to the totally outrageous silly advice.
i think missclutterbuck was kidding...and also being facetious (sorry, not to speak for you, missclutterbuck)...i mean whether this person is for real or not (i'm banking on "not" and somebody's having fun), we have all attempted to give good advice she didn't listen to...so now it's on to the totally outrageous silly advice.
I do know a guy whose brother lived together with a girl for more than 10 years and never married. He is Persian and his family wants him to marry to Persian. While the girl he lives with is an American, non Persian, satisfies his sexual need but he was unable to marry her. So just because some one lives with you there is no guaranteed that he will marry you.
You here this in the news, the girl who played in Black Swan, Natalie Portman, she married a guy who was already living with somebody else.
Did this guy ever tell the American whom he was living with that he'd marry her eventually? Because my ex told me he would whenever he decided the time was right, was it a culture thing? Because my boyfriend was from a poor African country and before he met me his nickname to his friend was "Seal," and I am (in many other people's words) a beautiful fair American girl. I don't know hiw he could actually have intention of marrying me if he threatened to dump me every time I brought up the future and often actually eoyks , and couldn't even give an approximate timetable like getting engaged within the next couple of years?
Maybe I should tell him sure I'll stop texting you, probably best for me not to keep communicating w u as long as my attempts to have simple adult discussions abut future are met w you dumping me, then claiming its my "fault."
Id rather have him back as long as I can actually trust that he isn't just stringing me along when he says "I will marry you eventually when I decide the time is right as long as you stop asking/Pressuring me about it. And I have no approximate timetable to give, and if this isn't good enough for you, then do what you have to do & leave."
You can't trust that. He has SHOWN you you can't trust that. So what you are asking is how do I make him into someone else?
Assuming there is any part of this that is true (not likely; no one can be this dense), he's not going to marry you. He told you that just to get you to shut up about it.
As for how to get his attention - you should probably sleep with all of his friends. Then if he gets mad you'll know he's jealous and that means he really loves you but just doesn't know how to show it! Yeah, that's the ticket!
Look, I'm highly intelligent in other ways. Maybe I just need a little help with social intelligence. How can you tell he was only saying those things to get me to shut up? Because he never was the one to say "I love you" or anything positive about me or bring up future in any way on his own?
Did this guy ever tell the American whom he was living with that he'd marry her eventually? Because my ex told me he would whenever he decided the time was right, was it a culture thing? Because my boyfriend was from a poor African country and before he met me his nickname to his friend was "Seal," and I am (in many other people's words) a beautiful fair American girl. I don't know hiw he could actually have intention of marrying me if he threatened to dump me every time I brought up the future and often actually eoyks , and couldn't even give an approximate timetable like getting engaged within the next couple of years?
Maybe I should tell him sure I'll stop texting you, probably best for me not to keep communicating w u as long as my attempts to have simple adult discussions abut future are met w you dumping me, then claiming its my "fault."
Seal is from London, though. Are you likening yourself to (the German) Heidi Klum? Lol
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