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I just want my boyfriend back.should I ask for how long he'd prefer I'd leave him alone, then Say something about how I know him well and realize he wasn't about to say "I love you" back and if he feels the need to back off then that's totally fine, I'll give him his space? Is this the advice Just a Guy was trying to give?
Yes. That's pretty much it. Doesn't sound like you are going to do that though
Ok seriously. He loved me for 2 years. When I had to decide whether to accept a 1 year travel position for work, I said "look if you aren't thinking about getting engaged within the next couple years then I'm gonna choose this because it'll allow me to see my family more often and is the best career opportunity I've had." So maybe he just broke up w me bc now he's convinced I'll leave him then and never come back anyhow. Sounded resentful when he said "well hey in 6 months you'll find all kinds of guys who admire and will marry you and give you everything you wanted."
Actually he never loved you in the first place. If you are basing wanting to be with him based on that you are making a mistake
Whoa what do you mean? I feel like your advice has been awesome, Just a Guy, but you also don't think he ever loved me? Then why was he with me
Sadly "love" comes and goes. If one half of the partnership has "gone" the only choice you have us to move on with grace and dignity. Take a deep breath and say you are worth -moving on-. Bless.
No, he is like "well hey you'll have all the things you wanted in 6 months." I think he's being jealous or resentful. How could he not want me? He just agreed he'll never find anyone better. I didn't "do" anything other than wanting to discuss the future and not just be BF/GF for 5 years!
"6 Months" to a cheating liar who lies = 60 years to us mere mortals. He is lying. Accept it sand move on sister.
Whoa what do you mean? I feel like your advice has been awesome, Just a Guy, but you also don't think he ever loved me? Then why was he with me
He was with you because you were convenient. He didn't have do do much other than tolerate your occasional outbursts. When those got to be too much, he dumped you
So, the words of his last ex (in a text) were: "even your best friend's parents warned me that you'd use me Out of convenience and then when it was no longer easy, you'd dump me." But why would he only use me and not really love me? He did come home w me
For one holiday and would take me out to dinner on my bday and get me gifts.
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