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Old 11-29-2015, 01:16 PM
 
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He seems resentful, saying "well in 6 months you'll move for that new job and have all the guys falling all over you "
He's done with you.
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:20 PM
 
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No, he is like "well hey you'll have all the things you wanted in 6 months." I think he's being jealous or resentful. How could he not want me? He just agreed he'll never find anyone better. I didn't "do" anything other than wanting to discuss the future and not just be BF/GF for 5 years!
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:22 PM
 
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When you refuse to listen, you ignore everything but want you hear. Sad. Pathetic. Desperate.
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:32 PM
 
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He seems resentful, saying "well in 6 months you'll move for that new job and have all the guys falling all over you "
He. Doesn't. Want. You.

Pull up your big girl panties and move on.
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:39 PM
 
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How can you be so sure based upon that text?!
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:47 PM
 
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Ok seriously. He loved me for 2 years. When I had to decide whether to accept a 1 year travel position for work, I said "look if you aren't thinking about getting engaged within the next couple years then I'm gonna choose this because it'll allow me to see my family more often and is the best career opportunity I've had." So maybe he just broke up w me bc now he's convinced I'll leave him then and never come back anyhow. Sounded resentful when he said "well hey in 6 months you'll find all kinds of guys who admire and will marry you and give you everything you wanted."
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Old 11-29-2015, 01:53 PM
 
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Ok seriously. He loved me for 2 years. When I had to decide whether to accept a 1 year travel position for work, I said "look if you aren't thinking about getting engaged within the next couple years then I'm gonna choose this because it'll allow me to see my family more often and is the best career opportunity I've had." So maybe he just broke up w me bc now he's convinced I'll leave him then and never come back anyhow. Sounded resentful when he said "well hey in 6 months you'll find all kinds of guys who admire and will marry you and give you everything you wanted."
Nice.
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Old 11-29-2015, 02:06 PM
 
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Ok seriously. He loved me for 2 years. When I had to decide whether to accept a 1 year travel position for work, I said "look if you aren't thinking about getting engaged within the next couple years then I'm gonna choose this because it'll allow me to see my family more often and is the best career opportunity I've had." So maybe he just broke up w me bc now he's convinced I'll leave him then and never come back anyhow. Sounded resentful when he said "well hey in 6 months you'll find all kinds of guys who admire and will marry you and give you everything you wanted."
We have covered it ad nauseam.

Re read the responses until you grasp that concept.

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Old 11-29-2015, 03:34 PM
 
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Maybe his last comment was him wanting me to reassure him that no, I'll never forget abut him even once away
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Old 11-29-2015, 03:35 PM
 
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Maybe his last comment was him wanting me to reassure him that no, I'll never forget abut him even once away
Don't flatter yourself.

It was to end the conversation.
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