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Yes I do. But he keeps saying he warned me Not to bring up future ever, and I did and so now he's never going back. I am just so sorry and after our time apart I've been converted. I will never care about marriage again. Yes it hurt initially that he was flirting and asking another girl for pics behind my back but he just did this because I pushed him away by wanting to hear "I love you" back, talk about living together or marriage, etc after only 14 months
Yes I do. But he keeps saying he warned me Not to bring up future ever, and I did and so now he's never going back. I am just so sorry and after our time apart I've been converted. I will never care about marriage again. Yes it hurt initially that he was flirting and asking another girl for pics behind my back but he just did this because I pushed him away by wanting to hear "I love you" back, talk about living together or marriage, etc after only 14 months
So, when are you going to ask him what he wants you to (do without telling what you want)?
Nothing much positive from you on this amazingly distant guy you've dated for 2. Did you just like the fact he was different. Isnt the fact he has nothing to do with his family tip you off of major shortcomings or even not being wrapped too tight. If after this thread you are still inclined to want him and think you will change him I would have a backup plan and thats to seek out a shrink and see whats missing with you. This guy sounds dysfunctional at best and your a close second. Your so terribly needy that whether this loser is in your life or not you will continue to make wrong choices. Your not looking for advice your looking for everyone on here to say your right. Sorry doesnt look like your many are giving the thumbs up.
So, when are you going to ask him what he wants you to (do without telling what you want)?
Do you think that would somehow work? I feel like he'll just tell me all he wants is for me to leave him alone.
This is a guy whose own sister says he's forgotten the family, didn't bother to see them in 10 years, blew off one of his few friends' going away parties to work on a work presentation on a Friday night, and declares he doesn't care what anyone thinks of him bc he didn't come to America to Make friends or be liked. And tells Me he doesn't care if he dies alone. How much success do you really think I'll have
Do you think that would somehow work? I feel like he'll just tell me all he wants is for me to leave him alone.
This is a guy whose own sister says he's forgotten the family, didn't bother to see them in 10 years, blew off one of his few friends' going away parties to work on a work presentation on a Friday night, and declares he doesn't care what anyone thinks of him bc he didn't come to America to Make friends or be liked. And tells Me he doesn't care if he dies alone. How much success do you really think I'll have
He might tell you to leave him alone. If he does that, then ask him for how long. Then do what he tells you.
Yes I do. But he keeps saying he warned me Not to bring up future ever, and I did and so now he's never going back. I am just so sorry and after our time apart I've been converted. I will never care about marriage again. Yes it hurt initially that he was flirting and asking another girl for pics behind my back but he just did this because I pushed him away by wanting to hear "I love you" back, talk about living together or marriage, etc after only 14 months
Because, for once, you would have done what he wanted.
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